I'll Probably Never Have The Guts To Find Out...

We work together and she seems so awesome and it seems like we would have a lot in common. She seems really down to earth and mellow and she's beautiful! We have talked a little bit but I barely know anything about her. Sometimes it seems like she flirting of giving me "the eyes" but I can't tell for sure! I'm afraid to just flat out ask her because I'm not out at work and if she rejects me and tells everyone I'll be devastated! I have a boyfriend...he doesn't know I have a crush. He'd be really sad if he knew because his ex became a lesbian after they dated and he feels like it had something to do with him. He knows I've been with girls before and he's afraid I'm going to leave him for one. To be honest, I've seriously considered it...
Aleesiam Aleesiam 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2011

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Liked reading your story. I am in a situation that is a bit similar because I have a crush on my boss and dont know if she is gay or straight either. Its soo hard to tell isnt it. She knows i like her and my husband knows i like her too (yes i am married) but he doesnt feel too threatened in fact he finds it a turn on, though dont know how he would feel if anything happened. Dont know that anything will ever happen because firstly she is my boss and secondly, but no less importantly i am married and it is a good marriage. Do try to flirt a little with my boss and she is very friendly. Not sure what advice if any i can give you but just thought you might like to know that there are lots of us out there with crushes on people the same sex as we are and most of us will probably never have the guts to do anything about it so you are not alone