I love my Georgia. She is my life and i will always be with her. But she will always be with Mani. Her on again off again best friend slash ex-gf slash person trying to break us up slash person who won't get over Georgia.
Georgia and I have been dating for just about a year. She proposed to me and we plan on getting married next summer. I have no doubts about that. But, her ex-gf right before me slash bf Mani has already tried breaking up our relationship twice. Granted Georgia is not giving in to any of Mani's advances, but I don't think it's fair that Mani should still be around. I know she is Georgia's friend and they've been friends for many years and that's hard to end, but it's just not fair to me.
I feel like an *** when i talk badly about Mani and tell Georgia I don't want her in our lives, but I can't hold it back because I feel so strongly about this. It eats away at me. And Georgia doesn't want to kick her bf out of her life.
So what do I do? It's becoming a weekly fight now. Maybe even more. I try to suppress it, but something always comes up. I try and just nod my head about anything with Mani, but then Georgia wants to know more. But what I say is never what she wants to hear. And it upsets her. I try to say nothing at all. I really do try.
I'm very good at reading people. Georgia knows and agrees with this and knows that i'm pretty much always right on how a relationship will turn out with someone. I have been predicting every aspect of her and Mani's relationship and have been right, but she still won't listen to me about what is going on. I know Mani still loves her and wants to be with her. And I know that Georgia is typically completely oblivious when people are flirting with her. So I know Mani is subtley making advances towards Georgia that Georgia isn't picking up, and Mani knows this as a part of her game, and the whole relationship will blow up once again with Mani telling Georgia to not be with me because Mani is still in love with her. Cuz that's how it happens.
Georgia says I don't forgive people or give them chances and she can't understand why. My philosophy is simple. It didn't work out for a reason. Things are(n't) meant to be. Don't **** with me, you only get one chance. Simple. I don't think Mani deserves my respect or my friendship for trying to break me and my fiance up not just once, but twice.
So we have this on going battle and I wish I could just find the solution to end it and that we didn't have to have this constant fight, the only thing that we every even fight about in our relationship. This will not end our relationship, I just don't want it to be a part of our relationship.