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I Don't Know What to Do Anymore

Does He Love Me!!

By: Heartbroken90
Written on February 9th, 2013
I don't know what to do with my boyfriend these days!! He says he loves me all the time every morning before he goes work.. It's just sometimes he can treat so bad it has me questioning wether he really does but he says if he didnt love me I wouldn't be here. He seems to choose this one friend over me all the time and breaks promises to me alot and I can't handle it but I love him to much to leave him. It's really hard when I'm struggling finding work and I don't have any friends to go out with and take my mind of it I really don't know what to do anymore I'm 22 and not experienced things a girl my age should do...
By: Heartbroken90
Age: 22-25 , Female
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  • radiantsky
    radiantsky

    First and foremost, it will really benefit you if you found some friends. You are young, go have some fun. Depending on him alone for companionship can put a strain on your relationship. If he is an advantageous person he can look at it as an opportunity to do what he wants. I don't know him but there are definitely guys out there like that. Your boyfriend is probably upset about something and he might be having difficulty expressing how he feels. Tell him how you feel, let him know exactly what he is doing that bothers you. If he is a reasonable guy he should be able to listen to your concerns and work on changing his behavior. Putting other people before you is unacceptable, you set the standard of how you should be treated. Trust me, if you continue to let him treat you this way you will regret it. You said you love him too much to leave. My response to that is LOVE YOURSELF MORE, then you will be able to leave. When you allow men to treat you like crap you will start to feel like crap.

    Feb 9
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    • Heartbroken90
      Heartbroken90

      I can't find friends I don't want to go out on my own its horrible. I just can't bring myself to speak to him cos he doesn't act like he's bothered. He came in drunk and told me I was second best in everything but I think that was the booze talking cos he's said he doesn't mean it. I know what you mean I do depend on him to much because I don't have anyone else.

      Feb 10
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