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I Dont Know Whether I Should Hate Him Or Love Him

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By: aloneinthisworld27
Written on October 7th, 2012
I have been with my.husband since we were 16. We are 27 and 28 now. I have expressed my want for a baby for 2 years. He always said i had bad credit and too much debt right then. I finally paid off all my debt, have good credit and saved 10 grand. He now still says not yet and leaves me hanging. When I try to talk to him he responds "don't worry". Every f'ing time and it pissed me off because after all my hard work he hasn't nudged. What do I DO to stop me from. Starting to hate my husband?
By: aloneinthisworld27
Age: 26-30 , Female
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  • Jess868
    Jess868

    You have a few options sweetie, ask him when you can start trying (and he needs to provide a deadline and stick to it) or explain if he can't decide you will need to move on and find a partner that does want to have a family. He could either be scared to be a parent or some men see children as a road block to enjoy their "lifestyle" and "hobbies". And in this case you will be left holding the baby while he does as he pleases. Having a baby is the most precious experience in your life but also the most challenging. If you don't have support it's easy to slip into depression and have resentment. I had a baby young with a man that was definitely not ready. Everything was left to me and I eventually decided to be a single mum (I virtually was anyway!) but now I didn't have to provide or care for him which was like having another child. Be strong in what your needs are. Good luck! Xo

    Nov 3, 2012
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