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well i dont understand why my feelings get hurt by my husband frequently because of his lies
msdeborah6963 msdeborah6963 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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Well I think any relationship is built on trust just wait and listen when he talks his lies will catch up to him I think once you bust him enough times he will stop .

A solid relationship has to be built on mutual trust. Lies hurt because they destroy the trust. This will destroy the relationship. <br />
Good luck I wish you well.<br />
He needs to be honest.

Non-truths in a marriage regardless if they are outright lies or not , hurt. You get the sense that " is this another lie or the truth" everytime something is said. You question your partner even when what is said is true.<br />
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It takes two to make a marriage. It can not be one or one and a half. But , two. I have been hurt in a relationship not that long ago. I know the pain. I know the hurt. I know how one questions oneself as to why. <br />
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I wish that I could offer advice. But I can offer that I know how you feel and what you are going through. I wish you my best.

Thank you. And it is very hard to be really into my husband when i don't know the truth from his lies and i am kind of distant from him for that. When he speaks i just stare at him wondering if he's lieing. Alot has gone on in our relationship of 23 yrs, and all i can say is that it hurts....