I Would If....

I felt that a person was actually trying to get close to me.  I generally don't  feel like anyone really has the time

to change their daily routine, either they are too busy with their own family (I don't have kids) and I know it takes time to  really get to know someone well.  It would have to be a consistent effort on both our parts.  

Is it that it requires effort, and no one wants to put that in?  Do they want a guarantee that their efforts will be

rewarded?  

One secret:  I do want to get close to someone, but I'm afraid that if I do I will fall in love - with her.  I can't let that happen.  Out of BOUNDS!

thinkingoutloud thinkingoutloud
51-55, F
Mar 3, 2009