Not That I Dont Like My Boyfriend But...

its just hard to not flirt with other guys. iv always been that way around men. its just my way of being friendly, but just recently i got my first boyfriend and its hard to only flirt with him and not with my other guy friends and accquaintances. its hard!! thats just what i do... and as much as i love having a boyfriend (cuz who doesn't?), i just wish i could have a little more freedom to be the person i used to be. its starting to effect my relationships with my other friends, not being the same person i was before i hooked up with my guy. AH!! its dang frustrating...
koepkebe koepkebe
18-21, F
3 Responses Jan 6, 2007

Yea, I totally get it. You know, I don't think flirting is cheating unless it's going somewhere. And of course, flirting with him around is a total No-no! But...when he's not around, I think you have the libery to flirt with your guy friends!

Your to young to be tied down, you still have to have time to get to know yourself and what you want, if you have a man telling you what to do or how to act, how will you ever know, I'd suggest to get a job and either go to classes or get an apartment and be on your own It really helps to know who you are and what you can do on your own and then when you find the right guy some day then you will appreciate him and then you'll be ready to give yourself totally to him.

yeah, sounds frustrating. i used to feel the same way. but i am so committed to my boyfriend now, he is the only one i would ever flirt with.