Sure, you could have children who are wonderful to be around, people who actually enhance your life. But what if your's turns out to be a nightmare, like my daughter. For at least 12 years, she has given nothing but trouble. Drug use led to three arrests, time in rehab, and generally a poor performance in life. Her other actions caused me to lose my driver's license, lose my job, spend a night in jail and lose thousands of dollars. Her abusive boyfriend broke my shoulder and I spent nearly a year of my life recovery. Speaking of boyfriend, my daughter had two, almost three kids with him, even though she knew he wasn't supporting his other child. To this day we get zero support from this dirtbag and I support my grandkids. In fact, if it wasn't for these innocent children, I would move so far away from my daughter that I might not ever see her again. There is no such thing as unconditional love.