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Posted by SavingMyself

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Most churches I have attended have been vain, shallow, hypocritical, socially inept, personally degrading, and huge STUMBLING BLOCKS to my spiritual growth.

 

In my young lifetime, I have attended many churches, and I have been disappointed in many of them. I understand that NO church is perfect, but I am beginning to think that it's just not for me. 

 

My view of God has been severely thwarted and diseased by the so-called "loving nature" of the people in these buildings. I just want to be able to get to a point where I can go and not be so taken by their opinions of me and my "faith". 

 

And before you comment: I KNOW all churches aren't the same. I KNOW God is in my heart. I KNOW I DON'T need church to be closer to God. I KNOW church is what you make it. YADDA YADDA YADDA. Spare me. 

 

 

 

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  1. Anonymous

    Posted by pumpkin79 on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:00PM

    ok well how bout a blah biddy blah blah.. *wink

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  2. Anonymous

    Posted by SavingMyself on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:00PM

    haha!!! Flinky dinky doo! *wink wink*

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  3. Anonymous

    Posted by pumpkin79 on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:17PM

    AMEN!! (so that's what speakin in tongues looks like written out, i've always wondered) lol

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  4. Anonymous

    Posted by SavingMyself on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:19PM

    ROTFLMAO!! I am sick over here laughing at your silly ***. omg...

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  5. Anonymous

    Posted by SavingMyself on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:19PM

    Pumpkin...E is a mess. lol! She ain't wrapped!

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  6. Anonymous

    Posted by pumpkin79 on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:24PM

    someone get a mop, SMs gonna have an accident. Enn now look what u did girl. ha!

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  7. Anonymous

    Posted by SavingMyself on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:26PM

    LOL! She is a RIOT Pumpkin!

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  8. Anonymous

    Posted by SavingMyself on Nov 4th, 2009 at 3:47PM

    omg....Ennuye....you need to stop.....lmao!!! lol!! "Some uh y'all"...you are silly!!! lol

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  9. Anonymous

    Posted by pumpkin79 on Nov 4th, 2009 at 4:26PM

    *pumpkin slips in a 10 spot in hopes no-one notices it's missin a 0. and runs to the front for redemption hallelujah Amen!! Lawd ima sinner!

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  10. Anonymous

    Posted by QueenOfHearts on Nov 4th, 2009 at 5:09PM

    LMAO I have $3.50 in penny rollers...
    forgive me lord for takin' the 10 pumpkin just put in the plate... You know my needs lord.. I'm strugglin'.... and a pack of ciggs are 5 dollas now.. *writes out an IOU to Jesus..puts it in the plate*
    hallelujerrrr!!

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  11. Anonymous

    Posted by pumpkin79 on Nov 4th, 2009 at 7:56PM

    *pumpkin walks back and drags Queen up to the front with her, lol.... queen put the cigarette out, your in a church for christ sake.

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  12. Anonymous

    Posted by iSigh34 on Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:37PM

    My grandma was a very wise lady, and a faithful servant to God. When I was growing up, I used to complain to her that I didn't like going to church because I didn't like a lot of the people there. Her response really surprised me, and I guess that's why I never forgot it. She said to me, if you go to church and you are distracted by your negative feelings for the people and your surroundings then it is better that you just don't go. This coming from a woman who never missed a mass...EVER! She actually advised me to stop going to church for awhile until I could figure out a way to focus solely on my own spirituality, and nothing else. She said that as long as I am in that pew and distracted by negative feelings, then I'm not there for God. And if I'm not there for God, then I'm going to church in vain. At the time I was having problems getting along with other people in my church, ie typical high school blah blah, ya know. She was actually pretty cool about the whole thing. Grandma's belief was that God knows your heart no matter where you are, or what you're doing. You don't have to be in a church to get close to God. Also, you can keep looking until you find that one church that calls you "home". I've struggled with my spirituality for years. I still haven't found the church for me yet, but I still have faith that I will. I'll bet you find your spiritual place someday too. Maybe it's like love, when you stop looking for it, it just happens. =)

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  13. Anonymous

    Posted by SavingMyself on Nov 5th, 2009 at 10:48AM

    Queen---Halleuyeerrrrr!!!!!! lol!! You, Pumpkin, and ESPECIALLY Ennuye are some grade A clowns. lol!!!

    Thanks Toni. :)


    Isigh-I hope you're right. :)

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