I Dont Like My Sister
I Disliked My Sister Since We Were Young, now she's just embarrassing!
By:
Xris1Xhin
Written on March 31st, 2012
I'm the eldest and my parents' first child.
I was the only child for 5 years and then I started asking for a sibling.
Why did the Lord not warn me that not everyone can be as sweet as I am?
So my mom gave birth to my sister and also almost died after giving birth to her.
I remember not going to the beach every Sunday anymore neither getting Burger King after a farm visit (which would be every Saturday with my dad).
Growing up I was the sweetest most obedient child, yet I'd be the one to get the most spankings with a belt.
My sister would go into my stuff, use them, break them or steal them, especially my most cherished things.
She five years younger than me and has always stolen my things and lies about it.
When I'd tell my parents on her they'd tell me to put my things out of her reach but she still finds them!!
And no matter what I'm still the wrong one for not hiding my stuff in my own room.
I'm glad I don't have to share a room with her anymore, she'd throw her clothes all over the place and she'd have the room dirty when I wanted to sleep I'd have to clean it.
Now I am 16, she's supposed to be 'growing up' as my mom says it but to me all she's doing is putting on weight on her tummy.
My mom says she has the face and I have the body. To me all she has is the lips, her lips are really full, she dark and has braces and is square shaped and she has really skinny legs. I can't help but stress how ugly she is, we both wear glasses but I wear contact lens, but even when I wear my glasses i look normal.
I'm so embarrassed to go out with her and my mom makes me take her along with me when I go somewhere like to run an errand and then people who know me, ask me if she's my sister and as embarrassing as it is, I tell them yes, then they ask how come she's darker.
They're some dumb blind people who even have the nerve to tell me that she looks like me, I hate it :(.
I know it's bad to feel embarassed about her.
But I don't think a makeover would help.
She's getting her braces out soon but even without them she just naturally ugly.
That's not the only thing ugly about her, I'm small built with an hourglass body and I exercise to stay in shape, and if I put on a little weight or if I pig out a little on a holiday she teases me and says that I'm going to be the fat one. But honestly, even if I do get fat, I won't look bad because i'll just be looking full, she's she one who's belly is gunna be obese.
I dont feel bad about saying this because she is very mean to me and very rude.
I've told my mom that she is only in the sixth grade and she already gives me attitude and when I tell her she's wrong about something she scolds and screams at me, my mom just tells her to be more respectful to me and gave me permission to hit her.
But if I could I would slam her head in a wall.
When I change the channel on television she curses about how I only watch stupid stuff (discovery channel MTV) while she watches Disney channel and nickelodeon. I don't get it I was way more mature in the 6th grade I was younger in the sixth grade and all my classmates were older than me so I felt obliged to act a little more mature. I graduated as 2nd best, not to mention my sister really has no insight. When I try to explain her a som it takes hours and sometimes she has too much pride to listen to me.
She also really greedy, for all the fatty foods my mom buys and puts in the house. Every saturday for 4 years I've been the one to wake up and wash the clothes (everyone in our household's clothes) This year my mom put her to help me and my grandma is also sweet enough to help out every Saturday. The past few weekends she has been going to our aunt's house to sleepover and she says it's because our aunt helps her with her schoolwork/homework. But I know it's just cause she wants to escape from chores and from church(which we go to every Sunday). When her friends or whoever calls her on her cell she goes into her room and locks the door to talk to them, like she has something to hide. If you ask me, I think she acts immature to get attention. Because being secretive talking to your friends on the phone is something a teen would do, and she is a preteen. We've got a little brother that's 6 years old, yes my mom made us all 5 years apart. If I fail my senior year this year, and she passes with a high enough score to get into my school it would be so embarrassing (which I doubt because she uses a calculator to do her math homework and at her age I really didn't need a calculator to do 6th grade math homework) and it took my 5 minutes to prepare for a test because if you pay attention In class there's not much need to study. I'd have to spend another year in school + my friends would discover that I have an ugly sister. Is it okay to feel so embarrassed about her? Not even make up helps her :( I'm sixteen and I hardly ever wear makeup, she's 11 and she wears makeup at every opportunity she gets and dresses so weird with unmatching clothes and shoes that really don't fit her outfit. If my mom buys a pack of chocolate chip cookies she attacks it right away and eats 75% of it and then 25% is left for me and my little bro, but I usually just give it to him. I'd only eat it if I have the crave for it. But as long as chocolate chip cookies, chocolate or ice cream or sweets are in the house my sister eats it until it's done, that's just glutton. I mean my mom buys it because it's like a snack or so for during the day, not for her to eat it out right away. My mom only tells her that she has to stop eating so much because her stomach will get bigger, but she doesn't listen, I guess when she goes to high school and looks start to matter she'll realize why it's important to cream your knees and elbows and to exercise. And when she sees how life is without luxury she'll realize why I'm doing my best in school. My mom constantly stressed that she and our dad were poor but she was still able to somehow educate herself, not fully but just enough to provide us with everything. I was able to understand this since I was her age, is something wrong with her? Am I overreacting? Necertheless im really embarrassed of her.
I was the only child for 5 years and then I started asking for a sibling.
Why did the Lord not warn me that not everyone can be as sweet as I am?
So my mom gave birth to my sister and also almost died after giving birth to her.
I remember not going to the beach every Sunday anymore neither getting Burger King after a farm visit (which would be every Saturday with my dad).
Growing up I was the sweetest most obedient child, yet I'd be the one to get the most spankings with a belt.
My sister would go into my stuff, use them, break them or steal them, especially my most cherished things.
She five years younger than me and has always stolen my things and lies about it.
When I'd tell my parents on her they'd tell me to put my things out of her reach but she still finds them!!
And no matter what I'm still the wrong one for not hiding my stuff in my own room.
I'm glad I don't have to share a room with her anymore, she'd throw her clothes all over the place and she'd have the room dirty when I wanted to sleep I'd have to clean it.
Now I am 16, she's supposed to be 'growing up' as my mom says it but to me all she's doing is putting on weight on her tummy.
My mom says she has the face and I have the body. To me all she has is the lips, her lips are really full, she dark and has braces and is square shaped and she has really skinny legs. I can't help but stress how ugly she is, we both wear glasses but I wear contact lens, but even when I wear my glasses i look normal.
I'm so embarrassed to go out with her and my mom makes me take her along with me when I go somewhere like to run an errand and then people who know me, ask me if she's my sister and as embarrassing as it is, I tell them yes, then they ask how come she's darker.
They're some dumb blind people who even have the nerve to tell me that she looks like me, I hate it :(.
I know it's bad to feel embarassed about her.
But I don't think a makeover would help.
She's getting her braces out soon but even without them she just naturally ugly.
That's not the only thing ugly about her, I'm small built with an hourglass body and I exercise to stay in shape, and if I put on a little weight or if I pig out a little on a holiday she teases me and says that I'm going to be the fat one. But honestly, even if I do get fat, I won't look bad because i'll just be looking full, she's she one who's belly is gunna be obese.
I dont feel bad about saying this because she is very mean to me and very rude.
I've told my mom that she is only in the sixth grade and she already gives me attitude and when I tell her she's wrong about something she scolds and screams at me, my mom just tells her to be more respectful to me and gave me permission to hit her.
But if I could I would slam her head in a wall.
When I change the channel on television she curses about how I only watch stupid stuff (discovery channel MTV) while she watches Disney channel and nickelodeon. I don't get it I was way more mature in the 6th grade I was younger in the sixth grade and all my classmates were older than me so I felt obliged to act a little more mature. I graduated as 2nd best, not to mention my sister really has no insight. When I try to explain her a som it takes hours and sometimes she has too much pride to listen to me.
She also really greedy, for all the fatty foods my mom buys and puts in the house. Every saturday for 4 years I've been the one to wake up and wash the clothes (everyone in our household's clothes) This year my mom put her to help me and my grandma is also sweet enough to help out every Saturday. The past few weekends she has been going to our aunt's house to sleepover and she says it's because our aunt helps her with her schoolwork/homework. But I know it's just cause she wants to escape from chores and from church(which we go to every Sunday). When her friends or whoever calls her on her cell she goes into her room and locks the door to talk to them, like she has something to hide. If you ask me, I think she acts immature to get attention. Because being secretive talking to your friends on the phone is something a teen would do, and she is a preteen. We've got a little brother that's 6 years old, yes my mom made us all 5 years apart. If I fail my senior year this year, and she passes with a high enough score to get into my school it would be so embarrassing (which I doubt because she uses a calculator to do her math homework and at her age I really didn't need a calculator to do 6th grade math homework) and it took my 5 minutes to prepare for a test because if you pay attention In class there's not much need to study. I'd have to spend another year in school + my friends would discover that I have an ugly sister. Is it okay to feel so embarrassed about her? Not even make up helps her :( I'm sixteen and I hardly ever wear makeup, she's 11 and she wears makeup at every opportunity she gets and dresses so weird with unmatching clothes and shoes that really don't fit her outfit. If my mom buys a pack of chocolate chip cookies she attacks it right away and eats 75% of it and then 25% is left for me and my little bro, but I usually just give it to him. I'd only eat it if I have the crave for it. But as long as chocolate chip cookies, chocolate or ice cream or sweets are in the house my sister eats it until it's done, that's just glutton. I mean my mom buys it because it's like a snack or so for during the day, not for her to eat it out right away. My mom only tells her that she has to stop eating so much because her stomach will get bigger, but she doesn't listen, I guess when she goes to high school and looks start to matter she'll realize why it's important to cream your knees and elbows and to exercise. And when she sees how life is without luxury she'll realize why I'm doing my best in school. My mom constantly stressed that she and our dad were poor but she was still able to somehow educate herself, not fully but just enough to provide us with everything. I was able to understand this since I was her age, is something wrong with her? Am I overreacting? Necertheless im really embarrassed of her.
By:
Xris1Xhin
Age:
16-17
,
Female
