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I Don't Love My Boyfriend Anymore

I Used To Be So In Love, Now I'm Not

By: renvsner
Written on September 27th, 2010
When my bf and I started to go out, I just came out of a bad relationship. My bf was sweet, kind and very shy but I was never physically attracted to him. But I thought 'he's a nice guy, stable going to college, what am I to complain about, am i going to find a great guy like this?.' We've been dating for over a year now and for the last while I've been having thoughts about school, my future and preferabily being single to experiance it all (my bf is very homely and loves to play on his computer which I never minded but I want to do more). To add on that, I had a crush on a guy in highschool surface again but whether or not he rejects me does not affect my confusion about being with my bf or not. I'm certainly not going to put the moves on him while I'm dating my bf, being thats wrong and that I'm enciting contact to him on facebook. i'm really confused and would love advice, I'm not going to break up with my bf right away without being TOTALLY sure, but I'm in a rock in a hard place.
By: renvsner
Age: 18-21
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  • 2power10
    2power10

    i've been through this. to me, personally, i had outgrown the relationship, and it was messing up my mind that i was. that i was getting interested in other kinds of men. my boyfriend loved me, and still loves me, but the fact that we weren't too compatible would make me keep getting fidgety. plenty of fights happened, lots of stress kept building up....and plenty plenty of "breaks" were being taken. it wasnt an entirely healthy reln, but i finally had to face the fact that i was indeed out of love with this person and didn't see myself spending a lifetime with him.



    i think that if you're able to maintain a peaceful reln it's not much of a reason to let go of the reln. but if things r stressing you out to the point that you're rebelling, call it quits since you cannot force yourself to be in love. it isn't fair to either of you.

    Oct 17, 2010
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  • renvsner
    renvsner

    I'm willing to answer questions if anyone's confused.

    Sep 27, 2010
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