When my bf and I started to go out, I just came out of a bad relationship. My bf was sweet, kind and very shy but I was never physically attracted to him. But I thought 'he's a nice guy, stable going to college, what am I to complain about, am i going to find a great guy like this?.' We've been dating for over a year now and for the last while I've been having thoughts about school, my future and preferabily being single to experiance it all (my bf is very homely and loves to play on his computer which I never minded but I want to do more). To add on that, I had a crush on a guy in highschool surface again but whether or not he rejects me does not affect my confusion about being with my bf or not. I'm certainly not going to put the moves on him while I'm dating my bf, being thats wrong and that I'm enciting contact to him on facebook. i'm really confused and would love advice, I'm not going to break up with my bf right away without being TOTALLY sure, but I'm in a rock in a hard place.