Or Anyone Else

 I feel for myself and others but am not going to throw myself or anyone else a pity party. My motto: Don't like your life as soon as possible change things until you do!!!

BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe
36-40, F
12 Responses Feb 25, 2009

I agree with this- self pity gets you nowhere. The minute that you decide to get over what has happened to you, be a strong person and carry on with your life is the minute that your happiness will improve considerably. I'm trying to move on with my life at the moment :)

you think i could do better <br />
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you think if i was positive things would be better <br />
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NOT TRUE

Thanks BrutMystik's<br />
Tulick It is wrong to assume I don't get what your saying. I do understand what you are saying I just don't agree with it there is a huge difference

it is not wrong when i see things like this and youe response

I get it Jbird. <br />
Great Post :-)

Assuming others do not know how hard life can be and assuming we just don't understand is just as wrong of you

for your information that statement was NOT all about me it was about many people many of them on this site <br />
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i know many people including myself who keep going keep doing and the only changes are for the worse not the better <br />
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i do many things to change my life and nothing works then you and others look around and wonder why the negativity <br />
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and my attitude has NEVER held me back from ANYTHING bad luck professional incompotence are the culprets

YOU made it about you when you said "you just don't get it when you are doing everything you can to chane it and that dosen't work repeat, repeat, repeat over and over again<br><br />
WHAT DO YOU DO THEN <br><br />
and i have a sneaky susption you along w/ too many others are mistaking a pitty party for experssion"<br><br />
That is ALL about you in that statement and this story had nothing to do with you when I wrote it but YOU are right. This is about people who give up and refuse to move forward.<br><br />
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YOU KEEP DOING IT because life sucks for everyone all ANYONE can do is keep going and change DOES happen!!!!! <br><br />
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I DO GET IT!!! It is YOUR choice and if you feel you can do nothing to change your life and attitude then that is that but do not sit here and say you are giving it your all when you are not just expressing yourself you ARE choosing to be as negative as possible. I understand you don't want to be positive because you feel it's pointless YOU have SAID that and you also practice it by turning almost everything into a negative. My point is your negative attitude is what is keeping you negative not life.

who the hell said the comment was about me i know plenty of pleople trying and trying and nothing changes no matter what they do <br />
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i DO NOT think everything is about me <br />
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and you are not the only one i would i would accuse of mistaking a pittly party for ex<x>pression <br />
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and i don't know what seld destructive pattern you think i'm in but i think you need a new deffinition of self destructive

Tulick, I think of others who are suffering more then myself when I start feeling sorry for myself because life is about more then me!!! Not everything is about you!!! That is the point!!! I am slowly going through ALL of my experiences and finishing writing stories to go with all of them this STORY has NOTHING to do with you!!! Yet proving my point you seem to thing everything is about you, people are not picking on you they are trying to give you more options the the self destructive patterns you seem to be stuck in. EVERYONE has to live with things that suck and can do nothing about but ALWAYS looking at it as negative diminishing ANY positive that is trying to come through.

you just don't get it when you are doing everything you can to chane it and that dosen't work repeat, repeat, repeat over and over again<br />
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WHAT DO YOU DO THEN <br />
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and i have a sneaky susption you along w/ too many others are mistaking a pitty party for experssion

Fine, you are sooo not invited to any of my pity parties! No gallon chocolate icecream containers for you! :D lol