I Can't Stand My DaughterI love my daughter, but I just do not like her. She is 12 years old, selfish, rude, devious and annoying. Every day is the same battle. Brush your teeth, have a shower, eat, etc
She is so lazy. When I do laundry and fold her clothes, her idea of putting them away is throwing them in a pile. When asked to clean her room, all the clean clothes are put in the dirty hamper. I take out large black garbage bags full of junk every month from food wrappers, packaging, q tips, just garbage as she's too lazy to put them in the garbage. Shes so lazy she doesn't flush the toilet and leaves it festering until it clogs. Leaves used toilet paper all around the toilet. Throws used things all over the floor.
She never helps with any chores unless she wants something. If she gets it she is happy but never a thank you. When she doesn't get it, it's attitude.
Last night we were out at my friends for dinner. It was a crowded house. She saw me standing in a doorway looking at her, assuming she would come to me after taking 15 minutes to take her slip on shoes off and put socks on like she was preparing to do surgery or something, making sure each section of her sock was on like so. Gets up, turns her head, rolls her eyes and walks away and said she never saw me standing there.
It's Christmas today. I'm upstairs as I just couldn't stand her attitude towards me when she only received a few gifts off her 4 page list.
She lies about everything, she acts like a baby anytime someone talks to her. People notice shes not acting right and ask me what is wrong with her.
She never listens and pretends she thought I said something completely different then what I really did say. Ie: please go to your room and pick up your wet towel off the carpet and hang it up. She will go to her room for 20 mins come back, it not be done and then say "oh, I though you said go in my room to look for your towel" stupid lies.
I really dislike her. A lot. Every day is a repetition from yesterday. People close to me say my entire mood and body language changes the second I'm around her.