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I Don't Say I Love You Unless I Mean It

Love,lust,or Like???

By: Blondevixon
Written on December 23rd, 2009

I never have i never will. This emotion and feeling for me, is not easily said, or given to anybody and everybody. I don"t wear my heart on my sleeve, and am quite hard and complex to "Really" know inside and out, only a few in my life know the "True" me, and can tell my every emotion just by looking into my eyes. I sometimes hate that, the fact even when im smiling and laughing they can sense my Sadness . When i say those three words, it comes from my soul. Finding someone who is like that is rare. I think so many people say I Love You, like i would say Hello to somebody, rolls off their tongue too easily. Good job im not easily taken in for all the Bullshit i have heard over a life time!

By: Blondevixon
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • justoneword54
    justoneword54

    i agree with you on the part that people often use this word like is nothing but i do think you should tell the people in you life that you love them because you never know how long they will be with you.

    Nov 14, 2010
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  • georgeg
    georgeg

    You are so right. Those words are incredibly powerful.



    i am afraid that so many use them as a tool to an end. Young people especially so quickly to proclaim love to get soemthign they want from a relationship.



    Men have often been accused of using it to get into panties, etc . I would be afraid that is true.



    Once the power of those words is known, it is a dangerous thing.



    I cherish the words, the responsibility that comes with them. The open trust, although that is still even rarer.



    I am thankful I have known what love means in my lifetime. The many facets of love.



    parental love.

    partnership love

    One heart love:

    (rarest of all) believe this one can be elusive over and through time and the universe. This is the love that is fated, destined to be, but may not be in any one lifetime. I wish this one on everyone, so that they may know fulfilment, complete love.

    Feb 22, 2010
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  • satman
    satman

    i would be happy to dive for you bv

    Feb 22, 2010
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  • Blondevixon
    Blondevixon

    Aww! Sat!!! Gulp...im overwhelmed! You havent seen the vixen strops though have you? Living with me its always good to learn to duck for flying objects lol!

    Feb 22, 2010
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  • satman
    satman

    you would be easy to love bv , you are a special lady

    Feb 22, 2010
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  • sugarnspice4u
    sugarnspice4u

    I totally agree and it is so weird when someone pressed for you to say it to them .. no one should feel intimidated or being intimidating about the 3 precious words - it must come natural and sincere..

    Dec 31, 2009
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  • Blondevixon
    Blondevixon

    I dont think some really grasp that though Rik, to them they say it flippantly, like saying "You are really cool i like you". To be honest i would feel embarrased saying this to anyone! And im sure they would run for the hills lol! Thinking im going to suggest babies next!

    Dec 23, 2009
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  • Blondevixon
    Blondevixon

    It certainly should Ed, maybe some people really believe they mean it. But i think it takes time to love somebody, i might be wrong but you cant develop this emotion after such a short time, or maybe some people can i dont know. Anyhow whats with this change of page layout? I hate it, i feel like im in the confessions section!

    Dec 23, 2009
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