Nobody Deserves To Be Abused In Anyway For Any Reason
I have seen many questions and comments on domestic violence against women.I really think that it's pathetic and out of ignorance that one would say that another human being deserves it because they stay and put up with it.
First of all..nobody deserves it just as nobody deserves any kind of abuse.
Anyone can sit there and say.."I would never put up with that! or "I wouldn't be that stupid or weak!
Yeah..right!If one hasn't been there..they have no idea!
If one has gone through it and was able to just get up and walk out..good for them..more power to them!
It doesn't mean that they are any stronger or any better than those that don't or can't just get up and walk out.If they were any stronger or any better..they wouldn't have gotten themselves in that kind of relationship to begin with.Those who haven't had to go through an abusive relationship are also no stronger or better.It just means they were lucky and good for them!
Most of the time..one doesn't get to chose who they fall in love with and I doubt that anyone says"I'm going to get myself into an abusive relationship and live happily ever after!
And when two very young people fall in love..most of the time the abuse never starts until many years later.Sure..there are cases where it starts right away..but not always.Even as adults..sometimes the abuser hides that part of themselves for awhile.
Many woman stay because they are scared..many fear for their lives or their children's lives because they have been told by the abuser that if they leave..they'll be killed.
Many think that they won't be able to make it on their own..ecspecially those with children.It's not easy being a single parent!
There are many reasons that one might stay in an abusive relationship and it really doesn't matter why one does.
What does matter is that as I said..nobody deserves to be abused in anyway.