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Decisions I Have Made

I do not think I can be loved romantically. I spent my high school years as an awkward nerd. I had a tight knit group of friends who loved me as a friend but everyone else overlooked me except when they needed help with homework. College worked out the same way. I am a motivated and very book smart person. I am in the engineering field so I spend a lot of time with men but they all see me as one of the guys. All of their girlfriends hate me until they realize what a nonentity I am. My advice, find a way to meet new people who are not intimidated by engineering. When you figure this out, let me know.
ravenblue90 ravenblue90 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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I'm still in school so I can't say much about the world out there but right now, even close friends can overlook me. All that keeps me going is knowing it'll never stay like that. I have people/love to look forward to. Believe in your future.

I can't agree more...as I am/have been in the exact same situation as you've described.

Confidence and a twinkle in your eye may change a thing or two. :)