I Will Never Believe In True Love

True love doesnt exist. When you first start dating, its all perfect. Its all infactuation. You feel so warm and fuzzy and whatever,with each other but as time goes by you start taking each other for granted. You start eyeing other people. you dont treat each other the same. You dont act the way you used to. You dont say the things you did. You dont do the things you did. You get over comfortable and then just end up settling. There is no such thing as true love. People just stay together because they are comfortable with having someone with them at night and stuff. True love doesnt exist, only in movies. I know this sounds soooo persimistic but lets face it, look around you at couples and you will see, relationships are all f*cked up so why should i believe anyone who says "oh relationships are beautiful, blah blah blah." whatever. I dont believe in true love.
OhLala17 OhLala17
4 Responses Sep 21, 2012

I used to believe in true love. Or rather, I wanted to believe in it; that it existed. But just recently I separated from the man I loved the most.. Well, actually, he separated from me. He chose his music and free time over me, because apparently he can't love me AND do what he loves/wants at the same time. He broke my heart, and he doesn't even realize it. The funny thing is that he didn't even ask me what I wanted. He just decided on his own. And no, I didn't see this coming. We were.. extremely happy together. He was wonderful with me, and loved me sincerely. He treated me with respect. And so did I. We never denied each other anything. I guess I was right to think that it was too good to be true.. This love was the one I believed in, and yet it's now gone. How can I believe in true love after this?

I completely agree with you.

My philosophy is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I found true love and it is to do with giving but also to keep in true love you both need to want it then work at it. Sometimes we want to work hard, sometimes not so hard, sometimes not at all. Trusting, being kind to people and kind to yourself will bring true love. Love yourself and others will love you.