Marriage Is Not Important To Me!

Marriage is not something I think about particularly, I was never one of those children who played wedding, it has never been high on my list of priorities.  I am not against it and if it was important to the person I loved then I would compromise. 

I just don't see the need for a peice of paper, as far as I am concerned love it love! Also divorce is expensive and why go through all the heart ache to seperate just because of peice of paper that binds you together.  I am of the view that marriage is a socially created instituation to control people into conforming and I do not want to conform, I am my own person!

If there is such a thing I really would like to find my 'soul mate' or 'the one'.  I would like to have a partner, a lover, a friend.  I hope that one day I will fall in love with someone who loves me to.  So far i have only fallen for people who don't feel the same way.  I'm not really sure if I know what love is yet, I have an idea and I do want to experience that for real.  If I do find love, I do not need to get married to prove it!

I am very independent and self sufficient and I hope this is not preventing me from finding love!  Either way I will be happier being myself and alone as opposed to married and constrained!

eelarc eelarc
26-30, F
Feb 27, 2010