It's a Privilege

In my mind, trust is something that must be earned. I don't trust easily although I do have a lot of trust in those who are close to me who have proved themselves. I trust my man 110% because he deserves it

usafsweetheart usafsweetheart
2 Responses Mar 6, 2009

i agree. the way it seems to me is most people are one of two things--beset with tremendous physical issues to be dealt with, or the other, my demons---emotional issues non-stop to be dealt with. after the umpteenth time having your trust crushed for penny-ante reasons by someone--you learn to kind of back-off and be wary of others. although; some people i know tolerate all sorts of crap and garbage heaped on them---just so they are not alone. i cannot do that.

I agree with you. I think this is so true. I know from havinga hard life it has made me not trust easily. But at the same time it is a bonus because it doesn't leave me out in the open to be a doormat.x