This is in regard to the practice of totally wiping out members when they leave, including, gifts from your area, private an public messages everything that had to do with them ! It pissed me off and this was born, then modified !
I'm embarassed to say this contained a Rant that poured out when I was angry because the policy when someone leaves is to ***** all traces of them from the site. I can't truly apologise, I value friends, momentos and defend my privacy fiercely.. Tis me.
I think this practice is Orwellian . Public Domain is theirs to do with as they will. But it would still take away from what the site really stands for "In my humble opinion" Contribuitions should become site property , barring the originator removing them piecemeal for just cause, and then only profile and public area stuff.
However "Our" whiteboard, gifts, private mail, etc should be considersed "ours" and sancrosect unless we are declared a public menace , nae wait that could easily be me on occassion? H-m-m-m banned form the board for crimes against humanity, Ha . lol
I think I can squeek under the line with that one. I'd really like to hear from everybody who is inclined to comment as to how you would feel if this happened to your lil slice a heaven an to others who it did happen to!
This relates to trust inasmuch as I had a reasonable expectation of privacy in my lil slice and it was violated! So, I went gr-r-r- for a bit!
***FYI nowhere in this did I state I didn't trust "anyone" pointin in fact! I try to avoid generalistic statements in general Lol This had to do with a specific issue with the removal of items from our mail area's etc. I had thought were private. I felt violated and spoke out. I make no apology for it as I beleive it is a reasonable and prudent approach to the issue. No where did I state that everyone would betry me either????????
But while we are on the subject of "Trust" . Trust, Love and Friendship require a period
getting to know each other and a building or earning of Trust, Love or Friendship. If ya can't live with that well I'd say ya are doomed to disappointment , heartache and worse. Lol juss kiddin. The wonderful thing about this site is we have a reasonable expectation of posting views or stories which reflect our outlook at the time. Not everything I post will be all ablbaster and roses , but why this one should have drawn such an adverse response is frankly beyond me. All are indeed entitled to their opinion, However the logic of saying Anyone who dosen't trust can't be trusted is illogical on the face of it. No one trusts everyone? Friendship, Love or trust given out without due restraint is really worthless and not to special from where I sit. But to each his own.