I Dont Really Understand Men ...

I couldn't understand my last BF (my ex now), i give everything to him but he still leave me and keep me hanging. He knows how much i love him, he knows that i would rather choose him than any foreign guy chasing on me but still he keep avoiding me just because of his dreams. I understand what he want and i wont let be the reason for him not succeed on his dreams. I just  want commitment but he's not ready so i wait, and when he come back he left me again and he will never coming back now i guess so i said it quit and give up. It's not  going to work out anymore.  He was so unfair ... i feel used ....maybe he just love me for a while but  i just love him so much. I keep asking why he hurt me that way?


Longing4Luv Longing4Luv
26-30, F
3 Responses Aug 26, 2008

losing, boy did you nail it. i agree with you on every point. only a person who has been there would have this kind of wisdom.

Thank you " Losingmymind " for wonderful advised... i really appreciate it. I'll take your advices, have a wonderful day (-;

From an old woman who has been there done that more times then I care to remember, <br />
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NEVER Give a man everything upfront. alway keep something back. <br />
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Why did this LOSER play you like a drum? Simple, because he could. <br />
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I always told my daughter that if you want to see how a man will treat you in a relationship, watch how he treats his mother and/or sisters,<br />
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Mama's boy? dump him, <br />
Demanding? Run don't walk away and don't look back <br />
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I know this jerk hurt you but don't give him another thought, at least you didn't marry him!