It Makes Me Sick

they don`t realize the scars they leave on these kids.some are old enough to understand .and they end up in thearpy for their hole life.it will break your heart and soul to watch.and how can you let them no that they matter when they have been so betrayed?they will never be able to be close to anyone in their life.

ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
36-40
5 Responses Mar 16, 2009

The decision to adopt anothers children is a very noble one. It is hard. However, it is equally hard on the Mother to do that...and I commend anyone who can detach and let go. Knowing that you have given life to a soul and give that one a good home? Outstanding. Many woman are too selfish to do that, but its really the best answer. Best wishes.

I have seen times when the parents were struggling to survive just taking care of themselves and had to give up trying to raise a child. I adopted a child whose mother was in such circumstances. It is a very long story, but my wife and I knew her and it was an agonizing decision for her. She begged me and my wife to adopt him because she felt we would be good parents although we felt we were too old. We love him dearly, one of us on this earth and the other with God. We never regretted it. We have always described his birth mother in the best light possible because that is what she deserves. If you were adopted, please think kindly of your birth parents. Leaving you to the care of others was probably an agonizing decision.

I have seen times when the parents were struggling to survive just taking care of themselves and had to give up trying to raise a child. I adopted a child whose mother was in such circumstances. It is a very long story, but my wife and I knew her and it was an agonizing decision for her. She begged me and my wife to adopt him because she felt we would be good parents although we felt we were too old. We love him dearly, one of us on this earth and the other with God. We never regretted it. We have always described his birth mother in the best light possible because that is what she deserves. If you were adopted, please think kindly of your birth parents. Leaving you to the care of others was probably an agonizing decision.

Children need both parents to grow up properly. Agreed. :-)

You're right, Ghost. It is hard for people to go on when they feel abandoned, as if it were their fault. I don't know what goes through their minds to get to that point.<br />
Not having had children, I wish sometimes that I had some now. I guess the world is getting more and more selfish so that children are a hindrance to their lives.<br />
Who knows?<br />
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elaine