Men Who Play Daddy To Another's Child(ren) Yet Abandon Their Own
My former partner and I planned a child together, but soon after I conceived of her, he became a different person. I got no love, care or support from him and two weeks into my daughter's life, I learned that he had been cheating on me since the first trimester of my pregnancy. We are no longer together and he is now openly dating this other woman. She is not at all attractive, is half his age and has a disabled son.
My daughter's father claims to love her, but makes no effort to see her or to even find out if she is well. I also had to get a court order against him for child support. On the other hand, he is lavishing all of his time, energy and money on this woman's offspring. She relishes in this fact and makes a point of advertising it to me, by sending me nasty messages on Facebook and by posting pictures of him entertaining and spoiling her child.
I need to understand how a man can plan a child and then abandon the woman he made pregnant? Why he would cheat with someone less attractive, who has "baggage"? Why he would abandon his own child for the child of another?