I'm Not Alone In This!
a person wants in the present tense.
for instance, right now i want a cookie. if i wanted, i could go join a group entitled "i want a cookie". because i do.
but if i listed "i want a cookie" as a goal, that would really mean "i am making it a goal to want to a cookie" or "i want to want a cookie".
if you want a cookie, just click 'me too'! you're already fulfilling the group's requirement!