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Why Do Men Get So Excited Looking At Womans Underwear?

I don't know why men get so excited at even a fleeting glimpse of woman's underwear. I have had numerous times when men will try and get a look at my underwear....(I admit sometimes I've helped them, but that's in my other stories).

If I wear a bikini swimsuit,  they don't act the same as if they are trying to get a glimpse of my panties. I can't tell you how many times I have had to squat to look at something near the floor and some guy will be standing behind me trying to see if my lace panties are riding up and visible.
The panties that seem to get the most attention are Bali love to see the silky smooth white back... with the seam running down the middle of my ***. 

Could you help me understand why seeing just a glimpse of a woman's underwear is so exciting to some men?  

deleted deleted 26-30 86 Responses May 7, 2008

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Because it's hot, and the more we can see the hotter it gets.

I read my post and think. " this is crazy" but even so I want to be penetrated. My wife sometimes helps but she is reluctant to use the *******. She has fisted me once and it was wonderful. I want to be a great husband. after 30 years the deep intense desire to be ****** is too much to handle. I want it

For a lot of men, it's also the embarrassment. Girls/women do get so embarrassed when they realize their panties are showing. Then they often move fast to pull down their shirts to cover it up. However, an hour later their shirts have risen again, showing their forbidden but so sexy panties. This happens continually to so many women each day. Which women? Those with big sexy ***** are most prone. Their tight tops have a tough time covering their big *****. All very sexy!

In my opinion, ReUndone is right. I always try to get a look at a girl's underwear, and I have been for several years now... I really enjoy it and its almost a hobby of mine now to keep a collection of every one I spot! But anyway, ReUndone is right because it's something you're not intended to see. Just seeing pictures of naked women, or ****, or other stuff like that doesn't turn me on one bit. What gets me excited is when you're seeing something the girl doesn't want you to see, or doesn't know you can see. When some girl posts nudes online or something, she knows you're going to see it! However when a casual slip-up or wardrobe malfunction occurs, it's so much hotter in my opinion.

This really works for anything too.

Example 1: A video of a girl being pantsed down to her butt, I will enjoy much more than, say, a video of a girl pulling her own pants down revealing her butt. Same end result, different circumstances surrounding it.

I also believe voyeurism plays a part as well, for instance...

Example 2: A picture of a girl in her underwear taken by someone else without her consent is much hotter than the girl taking a picture of herself in the same underwear.

Therefore, using the same logic, we conclude that...

Example 3: A girl showing an inch or two of her panties over her pants is very attractive to men (myself included) because it is something that isn't supposed to be seen.

Thus, the reason we find it hot is purely shock value. If every single girl did it 100% of the time, we would think nothing of it.

Hope this helped! I should know because I have enjoyed this for a while. ;)

Some ladies don't even wear them, so that's the enticement to try to sneak a peek

Panties are the last hurdle to the grand prize... so if men can see your panties, they can better visualize how you'd be without them... panties - esp. the satin ones - have the pattern of outlining the ***... that way men will imprint them on their minds and use the image to recall you during their session of ************.... If you're wearing jeans... men would rather check out your **** than try to look for your panties... unless your jeans are already skin-tight...

That's the part of seduction to which most lesser willed men fall prey... they want to see it... they know they will not get it/touch it/feel it.. but knowing this, they cannot look away... they have to see... they have to cherish/imprint this moment for the time when they are ************...

Does that help?

Its related to the thing that is contained in the panties Possibly the connection of having a woman in them or something. Guys like what women have down there so the connection is that the panties are somewhat of a wrapper of the good thing that is contained within. Hope that helps. Ever have something that is wrapped in something really shiny and the wrapper reminds you of what was inside ? well there you go I tried to help explain it for you.

It's like that yummy pie you can't eat but it is right there hidden in a box. Men are attracted to panties, because it makes us think about the other thing behind it, especially with woman that don't want us to see it, it makes us want it more. Men often ********** to womens dirty panties by sniffing them in the bathroom, it's something that is taboo and not talked about, but it happens alot. Men get very horny by smells, tastes, and something forbidden (Censored). We can't help ourselves its in our natures to want to have sex often and ultimately having children one day, that's the reason for human existence, women are supposed to be sexy and wanted, so our population dosen;t die out. In my opinion i look at womans panties because i imagine what her private looks, smells and tastes like behind the panties.

cause your Hot probably

maybe they want to imagine what they would feel like on them.

There is so much to it and it is really very difficult to explain. Tell mey why, when it makes you so vulnerable and opens up the accusation that you "had it coming", do you wear skirts that are too short or blouses that are too revealing? Why do you like men to look at you? If you don't you are in the minority among women. Look at the amount of mall space set aside for women to buy attractive clothing. Men's clothes, perhaps 3-5% of mall space. Women's clothes? 75%. Other miscellaneous goods, 20%. <br />
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I like seeing up a skirt. I like it a lot. I would like to have a girl that had fun with her power instead of one who decided that since I have seen it all, there is no point in teasing. Women, when you stop teasing your man with your body, you are losing him. He may not leave you, but his eyes will. <br />
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I like getting away with something. I like the secret flirtation of knowing a woman has purposely let me catch a peek. I like it when she goes to the trouble to make it seem accidental.

it's all about getting to see something we shouldn't. I've been to ***** clubs with a beautiful naked woman on the stage and been much more interested in catching a glimpse of the waitresses panties under her short skirt. Not sure why it works that way, but it does.

I will tell you why, its because underwear say a lot about a woman.. it says a lot about her personality

I recon it's because womens panties are delicate, interesting and very different. Unlike mens which are dull and boring and so similar. Its just answering the question I wonder what panties she is wearing.

Well because its like forbidden fruit...<br />
I.e. **** is one thing as it is blatant and you can't deny even to your self your one sick puppy....<br />
But catching an unexpected eyeful of the profile of a woman's vulva when she bends or witnessing the wicked curves of her *** covered in thin, tightly stretched translucent fabric etc... gives one a way to tap into the "****" inherent in every day life and all with the pretense of civility which is demanded by social convention.... but all the while.. like a naughty school kid the thrill of somehow feeling you have found a loop hole is intoxicating.

Panties are the sexiest things and i for one cant really explain why but i do know that given the chance, i will try and get a peak at what s woman has under her dress.its sexy to view womans underwear. Why do so many woman dress up for sex? yes its a turn on for us and unlike most of the respones here would rather see no panties, i would rather see the panties and fantasize what is hidden there.

I think men like to get a glimpse of a woman wearing panties because those panties cover<br />
that special area that men like to get into with their mouth or their ****.

@marcialynn some people look better with some clothes on. A tease is always fun so is full frontal nudity when it is not expected. Variety is the best..

Wow this appears to be a popular subject, certainly more than you'll get discussing quantum mechanics (Unless of course you post photos, in which case guys will hope you are either partially or completely naked. They'll listen to lectures on topics they know nothing about if it involves nudity). From my experience guys are hoping either you aren't wearing any underwear, or if you are that the view is none the less memorable. Apparently, leaving things to the imagination doesn't work well for a lot of people.

Oh how I love showing off my panties in public love to wear white sheer thong....<br />
also like the attention I get on or off the beach wearing my jean shorts open <br />
with zipper down with bikini underneath drives the older guys totally crazy!!!

If it's weighing on your mind that heavily, then just don't wear any at all. Then, men will have nothing to look at. *evil grin*

It's just the environment, situation, and perception. On a beach or swimming pool I wouldn't look twice at woman in a bikini or swimsuit. It's what's normal and doesn't merit much reward or pleasure seeing something when it's expected or the norm. On the streets however seeing a short skirt or seeing a thong or panties peeking is alluring (depends on the person wearing them) because it's not expected or assumed. It's like seeing a same colour box inside different coloured backgrounds, it appears different even though it's the same. <br />
So it's a visual illusion, but this time with a sexual/sensual overtone. When I am on a nude beach or a regular beach, the site of a naked woman or her parts or a woman in a bikini or skimpier suit doesn't seem to attract me more than a cursory glance, not enough to get a response that would get my imagination working. However seeing an attractive woman on the streets in sexy clothing that's either tight, revealing or see through makes it exciting and titillating.<br />
It's unexpected and more rare and therefore the reward system fires higher impulses.

ThomasWM said it well, above.<br />
The sight of a woman in general is joyous. The sight of a woman's panties, thin, fragile, barely covering ultimate mystery is seismic for a man. <br />
I believe, and have since I was about 20 ears old, that women do not know their own power and can not know it. <br />
But, SweetPanties, you are adorable to ask.

Put it another way, why do women wear "panties" and men wear underwear?They have been luring men to have sexual fantasies about them by wearing Panties . Such as the thong. S**t why wear anything? You wear it hoping a man will see it and want to **** you, Is there any other reason to wear somethat rides the crack of your *** and wedges in your ***** lips? I am a man that can not think of a practical reason for thongs? Do they promote more hygeine or promote thoughts of gut wrenching orgasams???

Mystery. <br />
It's what makes me adore women.

For me it's the lines that the panties will take, flowing along the right places of your body. Over or below your hips, coming down a little to the small of your back, right where the crack of your lovely ***-cheeks meet. It's also the fact that, hey, this woman is allowing me, or anyone to see this small amount of her body. Some women do not want to be looked at when this happens, and some do. I feel it's best to look. If having guys check you out excites you, I dont want to disappoint you. I you didnt want guys to check you out, well, I guess you could wear something else.<br />
I like constantly seeing women with a hot bod, it keeps me honry. I love to look at women with sex on my mind. It's always on my mind!

I get aroused with female panties because you girls have such a variety, different colors, different materials................ mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm no wonder I try to see them everytime I get a chance

My interest in catching a peek at some lacy panties started when i was a womans shoe salesman while going through school.Needless to say I catch a peek very often and since then I have enjoyed it when a woman slides out of a booth at a fancy up scale restaurant and flashes what she has on under.It is just exciting and makes the imagination run wild.In fact for me i would rather see a pic of that over nudity any day.Thanks for sharing your stories,they are fun reads.

It's because you are a very sexy girl Maria, Big Hugs to you my darling.

i like it cuz as a young man, we all were told we cant see panties. its something to keep hidden, there for, when i get to see them, its exciting and wrong. its a rush. likewise with the pee fetish.