I Dont Want a Relationship

I dont know whats wrong with me but I honestly dont want a realationship with anyone. All my friends have boyfriends....I mean I can easily get a boyfriend but I always turn them down. I had guys in the past come up to me and asked if I would like to go out wth them or just say that they liked me but it didnt phase me. I always said "no" or just told them that I wasnt looking for a boyfriend. My mom is starting to think I'm gay but its not the case at all. I just dont want to have a realtionship. Im not scared. I dont know what it is. I think Im happier single......
virgoshygurl virgoshygurl
18-21, F
4 Responses Jun 5, 2007

I really don't want a relationship either. I just don't think it's all that important. I have other goals in life and having a spouse is not one of them.

Everyone is different . Your still young and maybe you just haven't found someone that you would like to be close to, that's normal for a young girl or boy. <br />
Some young girls are boy crazy at a young age, I wasn't ever boy crazy, When I started going with my first boy friend I was 16 but I didn't know anything about sex, my folks wanted me to marry him so I did and I was married 24 years and had two wonderful boys but I can't say I was ever boy crazy but after I knew what sex was all about then I enjoyed a healthy sexual relationship with my husband but I was really to young to get married, I was still playing with Barbie dolls when I was engaged to get married.

ARGH! My mom thinks the same thing! But for me, it's not that I don't want to date anybody, it's that all the guys that flirt with me, I don't like. I just wish a guy I DID like would like me back! =p<br />
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~ChunChun^_^

Well good for you!!! :D<br />
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Seriously, although there's a lot of fun to be had with other people (or so I'm told), there is no reason good reason why everyone *has* to hook up with someone. At various times in our lives, it's much better to be "single" (the term is a bit stupid, because that's how we all are born by default!). And everyone really *ought* to go through a period of time in their life when they grow away and apart from their family, but aren't in a relationship with anyone. It seems very important to the process of growing into a mature person, if you ask me. Anyway, don't let anyone put you off doing what you feel is right for you to do for yourself. If you feel that you want to be single now, because that fits best, you are right, and there's nothing wrong with you... just something wrong with everyone else!