I'm In It For Me.

So newly single - out of a 4+ year relationship and could not be happier. The past four years of my life have not been exactly about me and now it's time to be selfish. I think that I am simply "not a relationship person".

I am ok with that I have recently realized.

So it breaks down like this: I want to have fun. I want to do what I want, when I want, with whom I want. When you're in a relationship you always have to think about the other person involved and tend to their needs. I get bored and it's not fair to him. After a while it is no longer exciting and I don't want to "work on it".

No more.

On the weekend I met this chick who told me that my age is the time to start being a *****. I am not out to get diseases or be a complete ****. I guess I am going to be a picky ****. Like, maybe you'll get your chance haha.

However you want to phrase it, I am going to have fun. Lots of it.

And I will be ok if I never have a steady boyfriend again. Because I'm sure there will still be plenty of fun to be had.

gothrobot gothrobot
26-30, F
Feb 25, 2010