Help! My Fat Is Controlling My Life!

I am 25 years old and ever since I was 14 I have been having weight issues, now that I have two kids my life seems to be spiraling out of control. I absolutely LOVE my kids, but i have been so busy caring for them that I have neglected myself. I go to sleep tired and I wake up tired, I am 5'4 weighing 230. I can't take this anymore, I want to be fit and trim. My husband isn't intimate anymore, and my 4 year old is starting to ask me WHY I'm fat. I have tried to stick to a diet and I just can't, if I eat the things I'm supposed to eat, I start feeling nauseous, I prefer NOT to eat rather than eat the same thing over and over again. I don't like to go out Anymore either, I find every excuse to stay home, I get so down that I just want to sleep all day. I refuse to buy myself clothes, I have had the same clothes for 5 years, which include only 2 pairs of pants a handful of shirts. I hate meeting new people because I'm afraid that they're judging me.... Someone please help me!! I don't want to live like this anymore. I want to change.
Fatgirlnomore Fatgirlnomore
7 Responses May 8, 2012


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I am the same way, I don't relate easily to other people, I end up looking like a weirdo because I just stand there and don't say anything... It's hard to add in my two cents when the girl who's talking is complaining about being a size 5, and how she can't find clothes to wear :/ I would rather just stay quiet than admitt I am a size 18 and that I would kill to be ten sizes smaller. I can't afford a separate meal plan either. I try to do portions sizes but I end up still hungry and it gets harder when there's too much leftover and u know that no ones gonna touch it once it goes to the fridge. I'm stuck in a rut

I'm 32 with 4 kids and I feel the same way...maybe worse. I don't have the money to eat a separate meal plan from my family and I have no energy to do anything let alone work out. I need help too.

I'm young and overweight. I hate seeing my friends with their boyfriends and being the odd one out. I can't relate to their conversations. I don't know what to do anymore...

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Keep up the good work! You will achieve your goal eventually if you continue to work! Something I have tattooed on my arm that my grandma would tell me before she passed away is to "Believe" When you believe in yourself and the cause you are fighting for anything is possible and I am now a firm believer! <br />
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Stay strong and BELIEVE!! It's possible trust me!! <br />
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God Bless!! <br />
Justin Martin

What's the ins and outs of it. Do I have to eat very little?? What sort of exercises should I do????