No Strings I'm Having Too Much Fun

So, I'm 41, had relationships, been married, divorced and that's the end of it. All I want is to have some fun in my life now and that's exactly what I'm doing.

Ive been on dates with a few guys, had some fun at the end of the night and that's good enough for me. Is it just me or are relationships just too much hasle and hard work ? Well, It's all about me now, selfish as that might sound, I just cant be bothered any more. It works for some but not me.

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1 Response Jan 7, 2013

Relationships are hard work. They are really so hard at times, I understand where you are coming from. Separated from my wife for a while now, I have no desire to find anyone else. Not actively anyway. I just couldn't be stuffed. I haven't got the energy or motivation. Not now anyway. But it might change? I feel like maybe I'm just never going to find "the one" or worse still that I did have her but ****** it up so now she's gone. Don't even want to think about it right now.

Also, I'm amazed people do have long relationships and marriages. Two people from different backgrounds get together and live together but there is a lot of compromises from both. You might gain a partner but sometimes at the expense of your self. But then what if someone came into my life and I wasn't even looking. And we happened to really get on.....I don't know. But I won't be out looking for her. I have better things at present to do with my life.