Quite The Opposite

My problem is that I don't want to lose her.
Hopefully there will be female advice here that I could benefit from.

I love her.
She is everything I want.
Everything I need.
And everything that makes me happy.

Right now we've split again.

She thinks we're too comfortable.
There is nothing new.
Nothing exciting.
We've been stuck in a routine.

I know it as well as her.
I wanted to get out of it.
Now i'm stuck in a world of hurt.
Waiting to make a next move.

In 3 months she goes away.
We live in the UK.
She is going to France and then Germany.
She's going to be gone for an entire year.

I will admit i've been a negative person.
I want to change.
I want to be the person she fell in love with.
Not just to get her back.
I want to be happy.
To make her happy.
To make things right.

If anyone has any advice either message me or comment.
Thank you.
FransB FransB
18-21, M
2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

Just be yourself, if you want to change maybe you need some space to become the person you want to be, and if its meant to be then she will see and fall in love all over again, but the main point is you cant make someone else happy if your not happy within yourself, when you are you will attract what is right for you, maybe it is her maybe its someone else, who knows what the future holds but live for you and those that want to be around you will make themselves available to become apart of that life with you.

Make her see what she would miss if you guys split up. Show her old things in a new light.