I'll Lose One of My Friends...

My girlfriend and my best friend are at odds at the moment. My girlfriend can't stand it anymore because my best friend isn't honest with her and just provocates her instead of sorting things out.

Now my girlfriend decided that she'll tell him everything and then when he's angry with her (and he will be cause he has a psychological disorder and gets angry and depressed way too easy) she says she prefers to stop going to the pub with us over coming there and being depressed because of him. If I stay with her, I'll lose him. And I will stay with her.

And I simply don't know what to do. I wrote him a bitter mail today where I told him everything and that he must start being honest with my girlfriend or he'll lose me. But I don't want to lose either of them...

GothGrrrl GothGrrrl
18-21, F
1 Response Jun 3, 2007

People just won't do what you think they should .. or sometimes what you know they should. I wish you could detach a little from both. Keep loving them but back up and don't them drag you down. What's happening is their problem and if they decide to make you suffer because it, you really can't change that. This may not be helpful at all but I wish I could hug you.