I Dream About My Ex Boyfriend. Why?

I am a happily married women and have a 1 year old son. I feel bad that I dream about my ex in a really weird way. Its like something happened between me and my husband and i'm dating my ex again and I still have my son. Now, last night was really weird. I was going to see his parents who I haven't seen since we broke up like 5 years ago. He was my first love and we were together for 3 years but, i'm married and love my husband. So, why am I having these dreams that seem so real? Someone help me and let me know what is going on. I can't talk to anyone about it cause all my friends are my husbands friends and they would tell him.

naughtygirl09 naughtygirl09
22-25, F
2 Responses Sep 10, 2009

hi... what i understand is ... that either u still have some thing to say to ur ex.. or there is some thing lacking in ur current relationship with ur husband... u should both give ur married life smre time... stay togther more .. give in exrta effort to romance .... and blieve that he love u and needs u more than anybdy in this world.... as far as ur ex is cncrnd ..... imagine he is in front of u (stand in front of mirror) and tell him u love ur husband and u r totaly satisfied with ur life.... belive life is better now

OOO-Kaaayyyy... you really ARE a "Naughty Girl", aren't you? I think it's kind of obvious that you have a few (few? HAH!) issues with the ex. BUT!! IF you are REALLY happy now, Do NOT go back "over old ground". Try to think it thru while U R awake, and remember: your 1st thoughts are usually the right ones. Get professional help with this one. Believe it or not, if you have a pastor maybe s/he can help. They often can, being pretty 'neutral'.