To Help My Lover

Hi, A month ago i met a wonderful woman that is being treated for depression for the last seven years. She has changes in her mood, she wants me around her all the time and suddenly she doesn't want me in her life anymore. Later, she calls and she says how she wants me, she misses me and she loves me. I love her and i am ready to do anything for her. I need your help. Should I let her decide to see me whenever she wants to go out whenever she wants to or sometimes I must show her that she has to do what i like her to do? She feels I’m too strong and when she is with me she feels week. In one word her happiness is what I care for, and that is why when last time she asked to stop the relation I promised her not to call or see her. When I wasn’t able to coop with the situation I left the country. I always tell her I fell in love with her smile and that smile has to stay on her beautiful face even if I won’t see it anymore.     Ii need as much information about dealing with such a case because I really care for her and I want to be there for her. At the same time I don’t want to have any negative effects on her.   thanks
edji edji
41-45, M
3 Responses May 25, 2007

thanks for the comments.<br />
i do want to take care of her, even if it means devoting all my life for her. so please, if anybody has personal experience that can help me i'm ready to listen and follow.<br />
regards,<br />
edji

thanks for the comments.<br />
i do want to take care of her, even if it means devoting all my life for her. so please, if anybody has personal experience that can help me i'm ready to listen and follow.<br />
regards,<br />
edji

OOF - good luck. You have to be able to read her and her moods as they develop. If you can, then see if you can influence the direction they go in. Its not easy - but can be done.