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Wives That Feminize Their Husbands To Gain Control!

Yes, this does happen! It is the way it Needs to currently go. The Male Mind is taught from an early age that Boys are Better than Girls...we here know that is a Myth, but many Males believe that. Now there are Feminine Males as myself that voluntarily Feminize ourselves and look to see women Empowered, but for that Macho male, the act of Feminiztion will "Break" their Male Egos. Once a Feminine man is Feminized, it is "Over" as far as his being able to "Control" the Situation. This is what Women Need to do to Gain there Rightful Power over the Males. For a Woman to be Feminine is not a Big Deal, or for a woman to do activities in a skirt or a dress is once again No Big Deal...but for a Male....Forget it. Once he is Feminized, the woman Especially if she is wearing pants while the male is Skirted...Will be in Control! This is Why Male Feminization is Necessary. The More Feminine a Male becomes, the Less Powerful he will be. Imagine that...All the Violence that Males perpetrate on Society can be Greatly reduced through Feminization. If Women want to see a Better Society, it is their Duty to Feminize the Males in their lives. Here si a great example of what one woman accomplished with her husband. Enjoy...Learn...and Duplicate!!

I have a feminate husband, who now enjoys being very womanishly. It all started about 6 years ago, we were not getting along that well and were considering splitting when I took command over him. I had some goods on him that could have put him away for awhile in jail if he didn't go along with me, so I made him my sissy at home. I made him wear mostly little girls outfits with frilly panties and short dresses and pink. He had long hair at the time so I took his mid-back length hair, cut straight bangs in front and made him wear either 2 long braids or 2 Pig tails with ribbons, or I would give him long curls with ribbons. He didn't like it much at first but I told him who was boss and he was going to be my sissy at home whenever I wanted him to. He threatened to go get his hair cut short, but I told him that I would turn him in if he did, so he agreed to keep it long, as long as he could wear it in a straight pulled back ponytail for work or one single braid. This went one for months and after about 8 months, he was starting to get into it started wearing more and more girls stuff most of the time. He very seldem wore little girls clothing much after that but regularly wore short skirts, shorts, Pantyhose or dresses. By the end of the firstyear he was wearing girls stuff almost all of the time. He would wear girls jeans, or Slacks and blouse to work, then wear a dress or skirt at home or on weekends. He would go out in the back yard with shorts and top or skirt shorts and do lawn and garden work. The neighbors would just stop and stare at him. He loved the attention and started going out and sunbathing in a womens 1 piece swimsuit. He had his long hair first frosted, then bleached, tried red and went back to bleached blonde, which he continues to wear today. He started wearing lite makeup and gradually started wearing full makeup everyday just like a regular women. He totally got into being fem and we both enjoyed it together and became very close. We had a little boy almost 5 years ago, and he was hopeing for a girl, but we finally decided to dress him both as a boy or girl and see what we preferred. We dress him as a girl most of the time and he has the cutest long curly hair and evryone just assumes that he is a girl. My sister loved the way my son looked dressed up, so she now regularly dresses her son up as a girl along with her daughter. Now at almost 8, he has long wavy hair and just loves to wear dresses and girls pink pantsets. They both make the cutest looking girls and we probably will continue dressing them like ones. My husband wears pink panties all of the time and sleeps in a Babydoll nightie and has not worn anything male now for about 5 years. We did have one major event that about ended or togetherness a little over a year ago. He went on a business trip to Europe for a little over 3 weeks, when he got home he told me he had a surprise for me. Boy did he ever, he found a docter over there who agreed to castrate him, I was SHOCKED!!. He came home with hormones and has been taking them ever since. He convinced the docter that as long as he looked so much like a women, he wanted to become even more feminate looking and this was the quickest way to do it. Without the testoserone he became very womanly looking rather quickly and has grown a medium set of breasts and has developed a very womaishly looking figure with added roundness to his hips and butt. I was really stunned by this and had hoped he would have confided in me before doing this dramatic change. We had a great sex life and i did not wish for him to become a Non Male completely. But after some long talks and months, we both decided we were still soul mates and continue to be a very loving close couple and best friends. He has no desire to complete an operation to become a true woman and is just satisfied to be the way he is now. I love him very much and we are really a very happy and loving couple. He looks great as a woman, Not like a Knockout or anything, Just a Nice looking Blondish woman who you might pass at the store an never think twice that he is indeed a man. I am glad he is happy and I am also happy that he is this way to.
Patti59 Patti59 51-55, M 33 Responses Oct 10, 2011

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I agree with you totally. I think if we are going to straighten out all of the problems with this country and society we need to elect a female president.

A lucky man, with a beautiful wife. xox

Your story is inspirational. Empowering yourself by feminizing your husband is wonderful. The fact that he took the initiative to take the step of having himself castrated is a testament to your leadership, his desire to embrace feminization and his love for you as his superior.


I would love to take a month off of work and have my wife help me dress every day and learn how to do my own makeup and wear 4 inch heels every day with dresses tight jeans and my steel boned ţraining corset tied nice and tight!

Keep it up guys are tired of carrying the that
Stick in races, time for the hand off, thanx for the break

Hi Patti,
I'm Shellia glad to see you have dominated you husband thru cross dressing.My husband of 60 yrs old (I'm 58) has been into cross dressing since he was little boy.His mother was vary strict with him and petticoat punishment was a way she disciplined Barney.He told me about his life under his strict mother who kept him at home in the house at all times.He said he knew little about the outside world except he was home schooled and a fast learner.He may not gone outside when he was young but he learned a lot thru schooling and his live in tutor was vary good teacher from how smart he really is for someone who wasn't allowed out of the house untill he was 21 years old.
He admitted he didn't like the outside world and didn't want to find out either.His mother was so strict with him that he wasn't allowed to watch television,listen to radios or read books outside his school books and the bible which his mother taught him to read the bible and given bible study lesson every Sunday that lasted from 7am in the morning untill late in the evening about 9pm which was his regular bed time.his school studies including homework were the same hours with time off for breakfest lunch,and dinner.
His mother kept him dressed as a girl from a vary early age untill he left home at the age of 21 only then because his mother passed away.Even then Bernard was hesident to leave the house,but he knew he had too since his mother didn't have much money,but her house willed to him was a start.He was suprised on how much the land was worth about $50,000 dollars in the 70's!
I met Barney in college he was a good student for someone that was hidden for 21 years you never know it?
He took up a job in accounting that's where I came in I was in most same classes as he was.We were attracted to one another.I don't know why but he came over one day after a class and introduced himself.We dated and he told me about what I just discribed above.I was shocked that this vary smart guy could be as smart as he was without being with too many people as he grew up.
We got married out of college.I was his typist when he opened his own accounting business.He got hs licence to pratice after taking exams which he had to renew every few year by going to special required accounting classes. which were onlty lecture classes on new tax laws.
When he was 58 years old he almost died of a heart attact caused by all the stress form his job.He had a manny clients.Big business men doctors and so-on.He made vary good money and I was his financier since I followed the stock market and made good investment back then you had large intrest rates and the money made good money!
He had hired a man to help him since he was pretty much overwelmed with work especially during tax season.We decied to sell the business to his fellow hired hand who was even smarter than him.
Things were different now and we decided to buy a home in a secluded forest setting in Oregon.Our nearest neibhor was a mile away.We had two acres of land and a vary large house.My husband kept up the land and I kept up the house.
One day wjile discussing our early life his strict mother once again came up.Even though she had abused him in many ways he some how missed this.I was suprised to hear this since he was bitter about it when we had talked about his early age.He told me he missed most of all his cross dressing which he rarely did,but had since being married.We both liked to dress up for sex,but never had kids.I got a kick out of how nice he looked in female clothing and as a female.He wanted to dress like his mother who wore mostly two piece skirt suits high heels blouses skirts and dresses.
We finally decieded to go out and by him some vintage clothing which was not easy or cheap!Most vintage clothing stores wanted a big price for dresses suits were out of site in price.We went to a thrift store,and it was here that we made ground! WEe found 50 thru Seventy dresses blouses skirts and even some suits.We hunted all the stores in and around Oragon.Then we took a trip to Las Vegas and found a huge amount of clothes in thrift stores and some in Vintage stores which there was many in the Vegas area.When we got home he started to dress up in his many outfits he looked for his age vary nice middle age woman in make-up and a wig (he was bald).He then ask me to be his mother and be strict with him and do much the same to him as his mother had!I was kinda not willing to put him thru a lot with his heart and all.I told him we could dress together and share domestic dudies.I do all the strainious work and he do the more liter load such as laundry, make dinner and do all the polishing of furniture wood work clean the antique silver serving dishes and cleaning of the bath rooms and mop the floors.Which were small bathrooms.there was three of them.I did all the heavy cleaning such a vacuuming carpet in our huouse and throw rugs and I would mop the floors,clean the walls in the kitchen polish the floors and polish the hardwood hall ways and den.
I felt my husband was being too hard on himself.but he want to live under the same rules as when he lived with his mother.To make things work I also went under the same rules as he.Living such as restricted life style of being couped up in the house at all time except when we had yard work most in which I did along with hired help.
I was falling under the same trap as my husband with the strict house rules.I knew then as I did my daily house work I began to enjoy working along side of my husband and we both were turning into "clean freaks"I knew that our daily shedual of six hours of constant house chores was taking a toll on both of us.We find ourself worring all night long that we might had not cleaned right and left too many streaks on the floor or my vacuuming lines not completely strieght and leaving to many foot marks in the carpet where there should not have been under how I was doing he vacuuming,and so on.
It now was time to hire an outsider to help us do thing exactly right.We felt this wasn't a easy task either to find someone to supervise us in our daily cleaning tasks.
WE put out ad's on the Internet which wasn't as good as it is now.We found a younger woman who was a head house maid who willing to put be up in our house would organize our clean shedual.Mary came to us in 1996.She was a strict woman who we both felt was perfect to keep us on track.She only wore house maid uniforms.In many way reminded me of "Hazel" looked.She was only 38 and she knew how to take charge.She changed our dress code to only french maid uniforms like hers.My husband love it! Mary wasn't amused at my remarks that we were house maid slaves.Yes Mary said you both are and your going to find out how to clean a home in the most perfect way.I saw her a "Stefford Wife" from that movie.She barked out commands and if I didn't move fast enough I got hit in the butt with a wodden paddle.I didn't want this,but somehow I felt the earge to go along with her majastice rules and cleaning.She was easier on my husband and she helpped him a lot,but I was on my own.I was harsh under Mary,but it was exactly what we wanted in the first place.
My cleaning shedual went from 8 to 10 full hours a day.That was not all if I didn't do my chores exactly to her ways it was extra time cleaning after dinner for me! Mary saw my husband a willing participent but she had compassion on him and had him on 5 hour a day duty.
Ion the other hard had things much worse.I had to wear a special maid uniform that was vary heavy head to toe blackdress I wore a veil for my head and a face veil.She also had me wearing extremely high heel ballot high heel shoes.I had to learn to walk in these thing which really wasn't designed for standing walking in.The heavy wool full lenght black dress a full white penifore apron,and the heavy veils I could hardly see in front of me.She told me it was punishment clothes that she wanted me to work in,and to get use to being on your feet and on the move during my 7 day a week 10 hours shedual.
Mary wish to be called madam.We found ourself working vary hard and I was now living a hellish life of daily house chores vary carefully or longer hours were a result!
I knew deep down I was enjoying my submissive life under madam Mary.My husband and I both talked it over and this would become our periment life style.We told Mary she was to be put in command,and we gave,and sign all our money over to her including the house.
We were now full house maid slaves for life.While my husband is now gone.He died suddenly.I was heart broken.I told Mary to work me vary hard untill I dropped,and beat me when I did drop to set me strieght.I still work for Mary.I'm now 58 years old and a house maid slave for life something I never thought I'd become.My sister came to live with Mary she and her are a lot alike younger and bosser.She went under Mary's spell and cleans along side of me.She gave up her life to be with me a a maid slave.She told me it was wonderful that we could be together as slaves.She also wears the same uniform and worse she starches then and had them lined our uniforms with hessian a ruff material that is vary itchy.I love how I climb the ceiling trying not to scratch myself in them.We both laugh about how sub we are and how much we love it.Mary only works me a short time now.My health failing.I love Mary as if she were my mother,and love to be told what to do.I'm a strong woman,but truthfully I rather be a sub it's nice to be told exactly what to do at all time under the strictest of rule for me,and my sister Ann to follow! I have my free time,but limit it so I can do more house chores for Mary!
Shelia J.D

wonderful story thanks for sharing enjoy life

I have been cross dressing for as long as I can remember. After prostate cancer removal my man parts don't work anymore and never will and it is shrinking rapidly to the point tucking is not required when I wear female clothing. I am looking now at having my testes removed so I don't get cancer there, but the other half of the reason is to assist in my feminization. My kids are grown up and living away. My wife is struggling a bit with my cross dressing. We are financially secure and do not need to work which is a blessing for my cross dressing. I am not happy in the knowledge that I can't have sex again with my wife, but happy to be able to dress as the woman I have always wanted to be without major re assignment surgery. Be happy. Gloria.

Best of everything to you. Happy Spring.

Fun fiction

you are a filthy disgusting woman. you were never attractive enough for an alpha, so you decided to destroy a sick omega male. **** you.

f/u/c/k you arealman you are just a pin dicked male jealous of the power women wield over males

This whole thing is sad. You're all morons. Each trying to drown the other in order to get air.

I too an im a chastity device, usually for long periods. In addition I do all the housework while dressed as a woman. At times it has been embarrsing as when UPS arrived. Of note, I am learning to feel more feminine and yes also more submissive. I feel this way without the sexual element due to the chastity device. As my wife is a natural leader and dominant this has improved our marriage;.

you are a ***

It easier if you have something against them to hold over their heads, then they will submit to anything including being sissified.

This is a wonderful story. Thanks sweetie.

that is so wounderful honey you are like me expect outside of being dress in little girl clothes at home an panties which i wear alll the time she has my penis lock in chastity also

The greater majority of cross dressing husbands are not gay or bi. this is a fact.

I\'m not gay, nor am I bi, but I dress as a girl 24/7 and yes I do get it up the arse a few times while in my dresses, but still I label myself as a strait guy.

you may be straight, but you don't have any self respect from a real man.

Your angry and have no control and a scared little baby

Now this is a really nice story, I give it the highest ratings possible, It's really nice to read a story about the wife becoming supportive of her cross dressing husband. not cuckolding him or degrading or belittle ling him. Not bringing in a third party to take over his role. again, I really like this kind of stories.. Joln

cuckolding is only a way to farther feminise the new feMALE wife to be, so I think it's a good thing in the end that women cuckold her ex-hubby and new gurl friend

you're ****** up

I agree, Bobby is cuckolded for sure. I had a two way mirror installed in my bedroom. Now Bobby can watch me getting pleasured and I dont have to look at him. Bobby gets to do what ever he wants to do to himself while watching me

you stupid selfish *****. you're aging and you will never be beautiful.

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wife has me lock in chastity in panties an punished
i am her submissive slave do as told i am long term lock up right now 8 months
i do all house work an yard work if not done corretly i am punished
our marriage is awesome

you make me sick

My experiences on EP include posts and comments about wives having sex with other men. This topic is of interest to me because it relates to my belief that a strong woman should control and help feminize her husband. And, if he loves her, she can help him be the female-like persona he so strongly desires.

she takes advantage of his weakness. you're a stupid piece of ****

Wish I had a girl Friend like you he is so lucky.

you must b emy wife and femm me tooo,,so lovely like your decision and way how your son made girly as father ..

What's the down side to all this? I don't see it at ll. I would welcome this in a nanosecond. I already like being a sissy. Why not jump in all the way and do it 24/7?

wish my wife would fem me up

Just dress up and let her see you and she will

That is a very hot fantasy of mine.

I must be sick. Because I like dresses and sometimes acting girly, I'd like ALL men to be sisified. I'd like women to control the world.

I already worship women, and I would GLADLY relinquish control. I would be glad to be feminine. It's so much more peaceful.

i completely agree with the RADICALFEMINIST!! FEMALES RULE!!!

Females are just superior to us males and should rule over us completely!!!

No woman should be dominated but should lead by the power of feminitity. Even Transgender women have the ability to use their femine ability to control a man to do what they want by their feminintity. Even if it is something you have on him or something special he likes, its it is a woman`s way to find the right man and keep him under wraps. billieannejames

Patti here our first of a sort of a disagreement, I guess It had to happen some day.

When say

"or for a woman to do activities in a skirt or a dress is once again No Big Deal..."

It depend on the activites and even there most of us (at least 99.5%) (expect for me) don't wear skirts or dresses any more in any activities maybe that why it no big for us women.

When you say :

"Especially if she is wearing pants while the male is Skirted" we see more new feMALES in skirts and dresses on the net with many piscs of them out side the house than we see women in skirts or dresses.
So that means she wiil have 99.5% of chance of being in pant any way you look at it.

When you say :

"Violence that Males perpetrate on Society can be Greatly reduced through Feminization", I saw A statics that say

"males were almost 10 times more likely than females to commit murder"
I guess testosterone must be hard to manage in a human being.
link of info:
And therefore if this true, than a little estrogenes will probably do some good to these people

when you say:
"I had some goods on him that could have put him away for awhile in jail if he didn't go along with me, so I made him my sissy at home"

I like that a good way to sissify or feminized HEr

And I like the fact thesHE choose to be castrated an to go all the way except for between the legs.

On the over all SUPER STORY

I love your story. I wish I could have a loving caring wife or friend like you.

Love this story.. I wish could find a supportive woman that would allow me to be one of the girls.

I hope so for you to. being a women feels great, If was born a man I think would have been miserable. and might have ended up castrated and on estrogens myself, but I got luck and mother nature gave me the right body.

Great story girlfriend, and with a happy ending!

This is the best feminine story I've read to date. NO wife sharing, NO BDSM, just a wife who got control of her husband. and they are both happy with the conclusion..THis is the way it's supposed to be. The wife turned her husband into an Elegant Woman. Thank You and congratulations on a job "Well Done".

I wish to thank you for your contribution to making this a better world. it goes without saying that "the world needs less of the masculine and more of the feminine", but still many mothers and wives still haven't gotten the message. Your posting should serve an an inspiration to anyone reading it and I hope that many will emulate you.

Thank You so much MsCatherine! Have you seen my Blog on Male Femininity and Gender Role Reversal?

The trend has already started slowly but surely.

Wow Great story ,and I love that your sons looks and act s just like a girl keep up the good work and oh by the way do have any picture of your son that you post on here becuse he sound really cute .