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Some Dom's believe that feminization is not necessary when dominating
the male and that is true, its not, so why do I do it? First look at
what happens when you don't. As a Dom I can dominate a male by force
or humiliation or blackmail. I can keep him naked and make him serve
me as a servant but I always have a male serving me. i can tie him
up, spank him, keep him naked or in a cage but he is still a male and
maybe even a man. As soon as I stop my control he returns to being a
man again or at least a male.
So each time i want something from him I need to put some kind
of "Force" on him. There is always the threat he may fight back or
refuse and that means a lot of extra work for me. My primary reason
for having servants is to reduce my work thus this option does not
make good sense to me. For those who truly enjoy conflict, maybe this
is the way to go but for me, i want a well trained completely
obedient and compliant servant who WANTS to and NEEDS to serve me
without regard for his own personal desires. I want my desires to be
Feminization removes the man or maleness from his mind. It changes
him into a sissy servant thus the male issues and problems cease to
exist. Males come with a wide range of issues, problems and faults.
These can all be corrected through feminization.
Lets examine a few of the leading problems. First is male ego. Some
have bigger ones than others but they all have it, they all are "men"
in their own minds and nearly super human. This means they want
control, they want things done their way, to look their way. What
would a male say if you put him into a room decorated in pinks and
whites and lace? HE would demand it be taken out. What if you bought
a pink car, he would not only not drive it but would not ride in it.
How about you going out and spending time with other males? What if
you held the remote? All these things have to do with the male ego
and its a problem if you are going to have a compliant servant.
Another problem is giving. A male likes to give yo u a present and
remind you he did but is he willing to do your laundry? Was your
dishes, Scrub your floor. If he does he will remind you it was YOUR
floor or YOUR laundry as if you are the one who is supposed to be
serving him. Will he wait in the car for you while you are busy for
an hour or two? But yest he would expect you to do so. You are
expected to give as a female but as a male he expects to receive all
of these services and much more. This problem does not bode well
either so must be dealt with.
Then there is the head of the house thing. He's the man and so hes
the head of the house. He may listen to your opinion but HE makes the
final decision. Even others will ask you if it's OK with your husband
or he is referred to as the one who wears the pants in your house.
The list goes on but you get the idea. So how do you change all of
this and not have to lift a finger or make a threat of a beating?
Simple, you start wearing the pants and put him into the panties,
bras, nylons and dresses. You make up his face and paint his nails.
You tell him he is NOT a man, he is a sissy.
Yes it is pretty much that simple. Let me assure you that when your
husband or boyfriend is standing in front of you dressed as a sissy
he will not argue, he will not threaten, he will not be a problem of
any kind. It is so easy to mold a male into a proper sissy servant
that it is beyond me why every woman has not done it. Really, its so
simple and so wonderful. And whats even better is once that male has
relinquished control and accepted his new position as a sissy servant
he likes it better too and wonders why you did not do it earlier.
The problem is that you have to force him first. You have to get him
into girls clothing and let him see he really is not a man. Real men
don't wear girls clothes so if he does he is automatically not a real
But just any old clothes are not enough. You have to remember that
males are raised though visual symbols. They have em
their small minds ideals that are representations of what they expect
and what they expect others will expect. So think of feminine
clothing as uniforms. lets start with a maids uniform. Simple to
understand, put the male into a maids uniform and he will instantly
want to be the maid he looks like. Use plain ones for regular work
and fancy ones for formal service.
At night put him into very feminine baby dolls with bows and pink
slippers and a doll or teddy. Now he understands he is in nightwear
and will sleep like a baby.
Keep in mind your not trying to dress him like most women dress. Your
trying to dress him like HE thinks women should dress. Exaggerate his
attire. For example, i make my sissies study every day and when doing
so they must dress like a school girl but not like any school girl
who may wear baggy pants and a sweat shirt, no, oh no, they must
dress in the short school girl uniform, with little girl socks and
If i have a party for a sissy he must wear a fancy full petticoated
little girls party dress. Not a pantsuit like a woman might wear. he
is not a woman and he is not a man he is a pansy and he must dress
like a pansy. He must never think he is a man or even a male he must
constantly be reminded he is a sissy.
This is done, vocally, visually and by feeling. I make sure my sissy
understands he is not a real man by being with real men. I make sure
he feels like a sissy by wearing sissy clothes at all times and
keeping his body free of hair and nails painted. I make sure he hears
he is a sissy by reminding him of it. Things like "Your such a
wonderful sissy" "if your a good sissy today i will get you some new
sissy panties to wear when I go on my date Friday night". Talk to
others about him being a sissy so he can hear it. Let others see him
as a sissy so you are not the only one. never keep it a secret, let
as many people know as possible so he can not pretend he is a man.
But most of all, always reward him for being a sissy. Tell him how
much you like it when he is properly dressed, When he serves you in
front of guests how proud you are. Reward him with a pretty dress or
fancy panties or new make up for things he does. teach him to
associate rewards with being a betetr sissy.
Now no matter what he is wearing or not wearing he knows he is a
sissy, he knows others know he is a sissy and he can not escape from
it. In a short time he will learn to love being your sissy, dressing
the part and serving you and your guests and then you have the best
of everything and so will he because he will think only of you all
the time, he will desire to serve only you or who ever you tell him
too all of the time and his satisfaction will come from pleasing you.
Now you may want to think about your present situation and think
about if your as happy as you can be or if you should follow this
advice and become very happy, very fulfilled and satisfied and see
your male become so too.
I will be more than happy to answer any questions concerning this