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A How To For Women That Want To Feminize Their Males!

Here is a Story from a Yahoo Group...Actually Instructions on how to Feminize your Men! I Love it!

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Some Dom's believe that feminization is not necessary when dominating
the male and that is true, its not, so why do I do it? First look at
what happens when you don't. As a Dom I can dominate a male by force
or humiliation or blackmail. I can keep him naked and make him serve
me as a servant but I always have a male serving me. i can tie him
up, spank him, keep him naked or in a cage but he is still a male and
maybe even a man. As soon as I stop my control he returns to being a
man again or at least a male.

So each time i want something from him I need to put some kind
of "Force" on him. There is always the threat he may fight back or
refuse and that means a lot of extra work for me. My primary reason
for having servants is to reduce my work thus this option does not
make good sense to me. For those who truly enjoy conflict, maybe this
is the way to go but for me, i want a well trained completely
obedient and compliant servant who WANTS to and NEEDS to serve me
without regard for his own personal desires. I want my desires to be
his desires.

Feminization removes the man or maleness from his mind. It changes
him into a sissy servant thus the male issues and problems cease to
exist. Males come with a wide range of issues, problems and faults.
These can all be corrected through feminization.

Lets examine a few of the leading problems. First is male ego. Some
have bigger ones than others but they all have it, they all are "men"
in their own minds and nearly super human. This means they want
control, they want things done their way, to look their way. What
would a male say if you put him into a room decorated in pinks and
whites and lace? HE would demand it be taken out. What if you bought
a pink car, he would not only not drive it but would not ride in it.

How about you going out and spending time with other males? What if
you held the remote? All these things have to do with the male ego
and its a problem if you are going to have a compliant servant.

Another problem is giving. A male likes to give yo u a present and
remind you he did but is he willing to do your laundry? Was your
dishes, Scrub your floor. If he does he will remind you it was YOUR
floor or YOUR laundry as if you are the one who is supposed to be
serving him. Will he wait in the car for you while you are busy for
an hour or two? But yest he would expect you to do so. You are
expected to give as a female but as a male he expects to receive all
of these services and much more. This problem does not bode well
either so must be dealt with.

Then there is the head of the house thing. He's the man and so hes
the head of the house. He may listen to your opinion but HE makes the
final decision. Even others will ask you if it's OK with your husband
or he is referred to as the one who wears the pants in your house.

The list goes on but you get the idea. So how do you change all of
this and not have to lift a finger or make a threat of a beating?
Simple, you start wearing the pants and put him into the panties,
bras, nylons and dresses. You make up his face and paint his nails.
You tell him he is NOT a man, he is a sissy.

Yes it is pretty much that simple. Let me assure you that when your
husband or boyfriend is standing in front of you dressed as a sissy
he will not argue, he will not threaten, he will not be a problem of
any kind. It is so easy to mold a male into a proper sissy servant
that it is beyond me why every woman has not done it. Really, its so
simple and so wonderful. And whats even better is once that male has
relinquished control and accepted his new position as a sissy servant
he likes it better too and wonders why you did not do it earlier.

The problem is that you have to force him first. You have to get him
into girls clothing and let him see he really is not a man. Real men
don't wear girls clothes so if he does he is automatically not a real
man.

But just any old clothes are not enough. You have to remember that
males are raised though visual symbols. They have embedded into
their small minds ideals that are representations of what they expect
and what they expect others will expect. So think of feminine
clothing as uniforms. lets start with a maids uniform. Simple to
understand, put the male into a maids uniform and he will instantly
want to be the maid he looks like. Use plain ones for regular work
and fancy ones for formal service.

At night put him into very feminine baby dolls with bows and pink
slippers and a doll or teddy. Now he understands he is in nightwear
and will sleep like a baby.

Keep in mind your not trying to dress him like most women dress. Your
trying to dress him like HE thinks women should dress. Exaggerate his
attire. For example, i make my sissies study every day and when doing
so they must dress like a school girl but not like any school girl
who may wear baggy pants and a sweat shirt, no, oh no, they must
dress in the short school girl uniform, with little girl socks and
shoes.

If i have a party for a sissy he must wear a fancy full petticoated
little girls party dress. Not a pantsuit like a woman might wear. he
is not a woman and he is not a man he is a pansy and he must dress
like a pansy. He must never think he is a man or even a male he must
constantly be reminded he is a sissy.

This is done, vocally, visually and by feeling. I make sure my sissy
understands he is not a real man by being with real men. I make sure
he feels like a sissy by wearing sissy clothes at all times and
keeping his body free of hair and nails painted. I make sure he hears
he is a sissy by reminding him of it. Things like "Your such a
wonderful sissy" "if your a good sissy today i will get you some new
sissy panties to wear when I go on my date Friday night". Talk to
others about him being a sissy so he can hear it. Let others see him
as a sissy so you are not the only one. never keep it a secret, let
as many people know as possible so he can not pretend he is a man.

But most of all, always reward him for being a sissy. Tell him how
much you like it when he is properly dressed, When he serves you in
front of guests how proud you are. Reward him with a pretty dress or
fancy panties or new make up for things he does. teach him to
associate rewards with being a betetr sissy.

Now no matter what he is wearing or not wearing he knows he is a
sissy, he knows others know he is a sissy and he can not escape from
it. In a short time he will learn to love being your sissy, dressing
the part and serving you and your guests and then you have the best
of everything and so will he because he will think only of you all
the time, he will desire to serve only you or who ever you tell him
too all of the time and his satisfaction will come from pleasing you.

Now you may want to think about your present situation and think
about if your as happy as you can be or if you should follow this
advice and become very happy, very fulfilled and satisfied and see
your male become so too.

I will be more than happy to answer any questions concerning this
subject.

Madam Rebecca


Patti59 Patti59 51-55, M 29 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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Came across this by luck. You have said it very well. Women do not see the real advantage of turning BF or hubby into a sissy. Best is it is not temp, he is full time devoted to the woman whom controls him. His brain between the leg stops thinking for him. It only has advantages for the Lucky lady whom is owner of the sissy.

Currently using this in my essay as to why feminizing men is wrong. Thank you for your comments, posts, etc.

Why you writing an essay abt this? Jst cuorios lol

for a high school paper

I would like to be feminized by a girl, as male Im kinda shy, even when I see myself as a respectul and gentleman male with my lady, I would love to be the lady. I do like even some jobs relationed to woman like, marketing, events, catering. I can even work from house so I do not really being in an office in order to enjoy much more femenine side. But I do not like boys, I would like to find a girl who is ok to feminize her boyfriend. I have now 30 years old and don't know if I can be feminized so good in order to looks good.
I support the idea men should be feminized, maybe there will not be harm in this world in anyway.

I am a happily married man of 5 years to a beautiful wife. My wife wanted to do something to get me to understand what it's like being her. Being in a financially sound situation, I quit my job to literally become a housewife. She put me in tight dresses, bras, panties, pantyhose, stilettos, even makeup, earrings, and nail polish. I would do light housework, just like she would. I was, for one year, a woman! As I became more comfortable of my scanty, tight dresses, I ventured into the real world. I shopped for groceries or my own female clothing. I could feel the ppl staring at my ***, even my fake sock boobs. I even got butt implants and injections because I felt like I needed to be sexy for my "man." I wore lingerie and tight, little pink panties and bras like so many women feel like they need to at night to please my "man." I've ditched the cross dressing getup for her, but I keep my appreciation for what she goes through everyday! It's not about control, it's about appreciating what women go through and do for us men; I am not her "sissy" but I am her partner instead.

I totally agree that changing mans brain to think he is a girl really works, My sissy was introduced as a sissy at age 5 and grew up into a teenage girl and on into a real women in his mind only. Bobby doesn't act like a guy nor does he ever look like one. HE feels he is a 100% girl.

Madam Rebecca, I appreciate your input, however my control is very dominate now. I would prefer a complete conversion of my companion to be a female and not just clothing. A medical transfer is permanent! I feel this would give me much more control! What do you think?

As a female evolutionary biologist at harvard, I can assert this goes against the genetic make up of the human male. Male adaptation through the process of natural selection is the reason they act in this dominant manner, or as you describe it "an ego". If you put a group of boys outside with each other without any influence, they will likely pick up some sticks and start waking each other. This "playing" is from the genetic drive to show dominance and to essentially practice what their genetic coding says they will be doing in the future. An example of this is when you see wolf pups playing with each other, it is preparation and practice from what their genetic adaptation through generations of survival has prepared them for. This same type of movement happened in Rome before their collapse, the feminizing of men. If you honestly are trying to do this to every male you must realize the consequences. You will not have anyone to fight for the country if needed because they are all "sissies", you will not have anyone working on your farms because they don't want to get dirty, you will have predominantly emotion based decisions as that is how the female brain works through their evolutionary advantage of raising children, and many other consequences. If you want to repeat what Rome did and watch the US burn, fine. But know it will be you guys who are the ultimate down fall of this society. You see all these mental health problems in the world today, from these shootings, to those girls stabbing their friend and blaming slender man. This is a result of an identity crisis caused by the likes of you. If you dress up a boy in a dress it will give them mental health problems. Gender roles were developed based on genetic make up. Keeping woman in the dark like in the past was wrong, however the feminizing and stripping the identity of males is going to lead this country to chaos like it did to Rome.

This is retarded. I have a harem of maculated women I make chop wood, take out the trash and kill spiders for me. What is it w some women and their unhappiness expressing itself through relationships of command. I support the disillusion of all false hierarchal structures. Men are no more strong or week then how you create them in your head. Your view of men is negative because you are a sexist.

My husband wants me to feminize him. But whenever I try, he gets very defiant. Now I just don't know how to overcome that. I know it would make both of us happier and he does look pretty good in a dress. Any suggestions?

Force the Issue! He is letting his Male Ego try to assert Control. Destroy the Ego, and you will have the Best Man Possible. Put him into Dresses and Skirts, and Take Control...He WILL LOVE that! The ego will try to assert itself...DESTROY It! Feminine Males an NOT Resist Strong and Confident Women...You will Both be Happier when you have him Feminized!

I just started being avlot more forceful about it, and he seems to be loving it. I have to say, it feels amazing on my end too lol

Give him a few hard spankings, that will demolish some of his maleness for sure.

To really take control, you have to break all his male boldness, He must wear girls clothes and be seen in public and then his friends must see him as a sissy too. Letting everyone know he is a sissy is the first steps for him to be totally feminized.

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As a male I'm not sure how to feel about this. We aren't all bad. I assure you. Complete respect for people who are bad and had this happen to them. But not all of us are bad

Would it be wrong to turn a 15 year old boy into a sissy?

Hi! I saw your question today and I wanted to respond. First, I need to know a few things. Is the boy a friend or a relative? What is your reason for wanting to turn him into a sissy? Have you noticed signs that he might already be open to becoming a sissy, or no?

No, if that is what he wants to do, by all means let him dress as a sissy and then let all his friends see him dressed that way. Take some pictures of him and hide them from him and then you will have control. Since you like girls, then he can be a girl friend for you. A new sister for sure.

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My wife knows I like to wear bras and panties. She even supports me buying my own. She is not the dominant type but I want her to feminize me. How can I get her started?

Try looking at it from her point of view- what's in it for her? Make feminizing you pleasurable and delightful for HER. Tell her how wearing your feminine clothes makes you feel more soft and caring. Put on your bra and panties and serve her by doing the housework, making her dinner and acting caring and loving towards her. Soon she will associate this new, improved version of you with the fact that you do this because wearing bras and panties make you feel more 'feminine' and caring. Slowly take little steps in your own feminization- add feminine items one by one. Try adding panty hose and low heels as you serve her. Don't forget, this is all about her pleasure and enjoyment of your 'feminization'.

You stated it well. My wife was somewhat against my feminization. But I showed her by example, the benefits - you do not say it, show her. Do housework, wash dishes, vac the floors, iron, all those tasks nobody likes. Get a guy to call you, she answers and he says they want to get together for beers. What is hubby doing? She will tell you who is on the phone, just say, no, I would rather stay here at home than go out and go wild with the guys, love doing these chores. Make her tell them "he really does not want to today, maybe some other time."
With this she will get the message, feminizing hubby is pretty good deal. After this she will try even harder to feminize you, but Always show, you still are the husband she married, but instead of using the leg inthe middle, might have to use the tongue more. This Works, I know.

Having us 'girls' looking nice and feminized is wonderful when it can be done to us but its not the whole story - we need to get it right in our heads what we are and not allowed to forget it. For years I have looked online for Ladies/Mistresses not for any heavy online training or cybering but just chat/friendship done appropriately.
Sadly I've never found anyone plenty of sites but always either just for financial purposes or full of guys pretending to be dominant females for their sick kicks and the only domination is the site being dominated by guys cyberplaying at saying they want to or pretending they do, I've stooped listening to guys saying how they think a woman want us to look, act, think; I've yet to find any woman on these sites who actually makes me feel effeminated or discourages me speaking in a male style; I end up just feeling like a guy talking about how another should think/feel.
Surely there must be a place to socialise / meet women who support feminization and domestication of us males where the topic of the day is always female led female issues, there is lots of girl-girl chat about fashion, makeup etc; I'd love a group where as well as girl-girl issues like this there is girl-male chat on fashion/makeup for what the girls want to see the guys wear/look like for their pleasure. I'm sure too there must be lots of Ladies who can't feminize their own man but would love to just chat and get to know 'guys' who believe in it too.
I hope you take my point, when it comes to online socialisation for and with those who believe in the Lifestyle (call it feminization, sissification or Femdom (my preference)) there is very little chance of finding a site that is not overrun by those with other objectives (I found the only way to tell if it is a genuine female you talk to is by voice contact/confirmation). The cause is seriously undermined by the Internet and those who do it between themselves in private can't add weight to the movement.
Point made, so in my dress and heels with nobody to supervise me I can go watch the manly football with no risk of being told to watch the Fashion Channel and write1000 word essay/report or worse still advanced refined girl training of having to watch a DVD on a Ballet and write 2000 words on it LOL
Night all ... I do believe in the cause and dress when I can, my point is without the support and feeling included in a genuine online community/friends its hard not to slip watch football drink beer and make antisocial noises us guys do. (burp)

I joined a group, call Tri-ess. They are almost all over the world. Was pretty good, and fun. Look for a local chapter near you.

Madame Rebecca, you are the ideal woman. I wish I knew the name of the Group you mention. If I were a younger man I would beg for the privilege of serving you. Live long and prosper!

Madam Rebecca,

I am a 22 year old who knows I am a sissy deep down at heart. How do I start going about this?

Kile

Great story thanks for sharing it.

that is so true women should be more in charge then they are now,they are moving up the work ladder fast an they are taken over marriage faster then some like to admit
my wife has me in panites an dress up as sissy at home wear panties an my chastity to work all the time when home its ok girl do your chores make dinner to wash things like that
as far as sex well most she does not want sex but she will demand oral alot of the times an anywehre any place i must do
she will punished me if i dont do my chores correct an she does like to show off in front of her gfs an sister

this level of domination doesn,t work - and makes less and less the number of feminist men in the world - because this is opposite of our nature - only a man hater think to these ideas -in fact these behaviors encourage the men who are hater of women to trait so bad with women - it could not be a mutual relationship according to agreement ,one for one- just women who are looking for so many sex slaves to expose themselves for trading do these acts - you said that you have several sissies , wow, i think you have problem with gender of male and are unhappy for being woman - i myself want to be servant for just one lady with loyalty forever who is so pride for being woman that is gender of superior- but you try to change your servant to a woman to humiliate him !!! is, being woman, a thing shameful in your mind? a thing else why so many sissies ? you in fact have several pets is walking around you not human- no woman or man can endure to see her/him partner with others, this is our nature - you and no ones can change the nature never-

Very good observation!!! The POWER OF THE ***** IS UNRIVALED!!! Most males crave to be controlled by a DOMINANT FEMALE!! i cannot understand why more FEMALES don't take control, and make a better life for THEMSELVES, and the males in THEIR lives!!!!
slave john

He John, you are not alone. I have run across a handfull of women in many years, brought it up, they try it and were sucessful. I think it is a culture level women have, they have to be a slave of a man.

how can i get more info from You concerning my own feminization. i have a Mistress who really wants to feminize me?

let her do it then if you want to be feminized
there is alot involved

So true!

A couple of months ago i admitted to my wife that i wanted to wear heels... Lucky for me she didnt kill me but agreed that i would buy a pair. Strangely and surprisingly she proposed me to paint my toenails a day after it! I agreed and was surprised. Since then my toenails are painted permanently! After that she bought me female underwear and also stockings.
She wanted a cb6000 chastitydevice for me and complimented me with my painted toenails and female underwear. I felt very humiliated but also very sexually arroused and like she told me later on she loved this feminization thing!!!!
She loved to see my nipples pierced so i did it. The first days after that i thought i must be out of my mind, i was a normal guy and so on. But with time i started to believe that i loved those piercings and that this was the real me. I started to talk about buying heels together with my wife and even about wearing makeup and a wig. She hesitated a bit but three days later she gave me a box with makeup that she handed over to me with a big smile.
We bought a ******* and two days ago she ****** me with this and we love it to the maximum!
I loved it when i put my slutty *** for her!!!
I feel more and more feminin at home and even at work f.i. This whole sissy-thing really affects your mind. Even if it is not forced feminization you feel humiliation, you become small besides your woman and start to love this lifestyle also.
At home iam not longer a real man, beeing (partly) dressed up as sissy. I believe that our relationship is much better now, we love eachother deeply and i believe iam right into place now. I believe that i wasnt a real machomen anyway and loves to be a sissy.
I can recommend this to everybody althought it will not work for everyone.
We have the luck that my wife is very dominant, she thinks that penis in vaginacontactis already a male dominant-act ans iam a submissive men with crossdressingfetish feetfetish *** and pussyworshippingfetish....so for us this works naturally!
Melanie

She needs to get a man to do you in your rear, thats what you need to be a real sissy.

Hello Jennylee, well i believe in 2013 i have to suck **** for her and when that happens your suggestion will be the next step.

sissyslet
yes it is so nice being sissy to wife me in panites chastity cb3000 an we have strap on also it feels so nicce getting **** by her like that
i was given an strapping last night i did not complete all my chores
my wife likes to show me to her gfs an talks about me when outside we go shopping an she would hold up pair of panties next to me you look cute in these or hold up skirt to me or what ever clothes shebuys for me to wear

I don't want to be a maid or servant, except as the wife of man or woman who loved me

would love this!

I could not agree more with your sentiments. I am happiest when in uniform taking care of the house or serving my Mistress in what ever form she chooses

Hi Rebecca,<br />
I caught my husband wearing my bra and panties one day. Should i femenize him totally now? I make him wear womens bras and panties and pantyhose to work everyday now. He bought me a french maids outfit and told me how sexy i would look wearing it. I wasn't to happy with that. What should i do now. Melanie

Hi Melanie! By all means...Keep feminizing him! The more Women that feminize the males in their lives...the better their lives become!!

Patti

im new at this can I have some help in this area my fiancé is a sissy im lost and don't no were to start

That certainly works for a limited clientele; however, the level of domination is so nominal that the satisfaction can be severely limited. By analogy, exerting dominion over a Havanese puppy is not in the same league as mastering (or mistressing) an adult wolf. Feminization definately offers some interesting diversions, but you really need to enjoy the path of least resistance to make a steady diet of pansies.

Sounds like a good plan