What Does A Woman Want?

Its being a while but I came back to this conversation. Somehow it flew off my attention and Ive missed the update.

Well, ms.Suisse, I do respect your answer and the way you've tell that you want to be you. It is really great when a person (woman?!) knows who she is and what she wants.

I do attracted to a woman with I can have a good talk, cause woman enjoy conversation (so am I). And what are they wearing? Well, have to admit, I am a man and do like to see woman dressed well (in all kind of way, can be sexy too). You what is a good about a men? Cause they are not so often as a woman looking completive at the way the woman dressed.

Recently I was watching some program about fashion, - a group of girls, getting amount of money to shop and dress themselves what they found and to judge each other the way they dressed. Well, Ive notice not always girl judge another in objective way. You know, I mentioned a bit jealousy to another in giving points to other.

Next, I have friends, girls and women, and do not treat them as sex object. What I attracted in them, again, the other way of fellowshipping and I know many women that are really "attractive" to have a conversation with. Sure, there are some boundaries, as you said, and I have to be aware of them.

You can wear a short skirt, it is fine for me. Again, nothing wrong with a woman/girl having nice legs and showing them. Why not? Some like that, some not, some feel embarrassed. It depends of personality and how comfort they feels about that.

I am here on EP because coming a good conversations with all kind of people, many of them found the way to express themselves here and to be accepted by others no matter who they are.

Thanks ms.Suisse for your appreciation. Yes, I do confident about myself as a man. That's why women for me some way are so mysterious and attractive as an opposite gender. Your story intrigue me in a way of: how much do I know about women? It it really helps to understand what do they want. You've got the Ph.D. - I admire it. Imho, it is not so common for women ;)

You started a very good story, really, going very deep into.

It is true, the way the women looks in those physical appearance can be really disturbing/provocative for men. Men in own logical way will see it as a link. Honestly, if a woman wearing a short skirt, I do look myself at her legs. This is a reason why do she dress that way, isn't?

I do understand, they are concerned about the way they looks like, in particular. It is true, some men after looking at legs staying fixate on them, making the situation uncomfortable. Personally I had very embarrassing situation, being in crowded hall and talking with a man, looks around.. and gosh!.. looks straight between the breasts of his wife, who came quietly to us and waiting for her husband... I was staring just couple seconds the way too long! Well, for woman it it very easy to realize, where do man looks at!! She has very deep cleavage, I was feeling how my cheeks and then ears are glowing red.

Alex, I appreciate your thoughts. It applies equally to men and to women - if you feel good about being yourself, if you are confident, then that transmits itself. I am confident of who I am, I enjoy my sexuality and I am comfortable with it. And I have a Ph.D. so perhaps not spaghetti in my brain, eh? It`s great if you look into my eyes, and I`ll do the same back, that`s how we make contact. It`s also OK by me, at least, if your eyes wander as well. Lots of women like to be admired, we like to be looked at. If I`m showing cleavage, then I expect it to be looked, it`s only natural. If I wear a short skirt, it would be silly to think that guys are not going to look at my legs. The trouble is, some guys don;t know where and when to stop looking, and some women don`t realise how provocative they can be in their dress. But it`s the confidence of the personality that ought to dominate - a confident personality will radiate confidence, whereas unsure can be the opposite.

Hi. Well, here I am too. First of all, would like to mention, yes, I am a man. Nice intuition, good for you, Ms.Suisse (may I?). In continuing of previous (mentioned) story- it is nice to have fellowship with a woman who do knows who she is. Here I mean the header of this story, - really nice one. Someone comment that brain of women is like a plate with spaghetti, I do really not want to offense you Ms.Suisse (and other women too!) and if so please forgive me. But in conversation with a woman it is enjoyable for me just to have a nice communication, to express our feelings, thoughts, what bothering us...

But, men are mislead with the signals that he receiving by the outlook of a woman with whom he communicating. The way she looks like, dressing herself... Does she really want to flirt or just to feel herself more secure?

It it correct that woman feels herself more female in fellowship with a man. But men look many times in a different perspective, as a desire object. And it can be truly disturbing.

But well, the other side. As a man, I do like to mention for myself if a woman dress herself to show up from her best side. In conversation in this way I do try to look into her eyes, it is easy not to slide the way down her body... And what does she feels if man fixedly looks (deep, as she thinks) into her eyes?

Well, BS, I read your other comments on another story as well. Seduction is great, done properly, and can be very enjoyable, but from my perspective, it ends where I want it to end, and not necessarily where your want it to go. You are correct, I certainly don't want some foul-mouthed jerk, but then, I don't think any woman does.



But, I see you don't read between the lines, and that is a major failing of all men. We have not met, and are not likely to, other than in cyberspace, but you feel confident enough to talk about seducing me. If you were really aware, you would understand that I am not interested in being seduced, at least not before there has been a lot going on before. By seduced, since you are a man, you mean taking me to bed. There is oh so much more than that.



I have been told by others that I can be hot, that I am too much of a woman, whatever that might mean. Well, I really enjoy being a woman, but it does not mean I want to go to bed. I am truly flattered that I make your blood boil, but that can be dangerous too. Suppose I reject your seduction, how would you feel? Are you in control? Some men are not, and I have taken marshal arts and defensive courses to ensure that I can look after myself. If I want to be me, it is a precaution I have to take, unfortunately.



I'll leave it there - let's see if you can read between the lines this time? We women are complex creatures, and please do not take this as a put down, it is not meant to be. I am flattered that you write such.