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Choking Sex

Tis all started a year or two ago. The wife and myself had been out with friends having a few drinks. When we got home things got heated up. We love to tie each other up and get rough with one another. As things progressed we started having sex and she asked me to put my hands around her throat and choke her. I was kinda suprised at the request. But I done as she asked and started to choke her. We kept doing our this and she started to return the favor and as we had an ****** we released each others neck and seemed to intensify the affect it had on us. Now it's an on going thing. Several times after an intense event she would wake up with a sore neck. On occassion I've had her start slapping me in the face as I choke her, what a rush. Sometimes I will walk up behind her shove her against the wall or counter and act like taking her from behind and place my hand around her neck and it seems to get her going. It seems to get more intense the more we practice the technique. I would be willing to do more but still trying find our thresholds or boundaries. Suggestions wanted.
breathless38 breathless38 36-40 19 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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Careful my friend, there have been some deaths in this area from exactly that form of sex.

I understand that when you are pressing on the carotid arteries on the neck, you can sometimes press on the vagus nerve instead. It is close to a carotid artery, and pressing on it can cause death.<br />
I have never seen any explanation of how to avoid the vagus nerve.<br />
Anybody know about this?

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The vagus nerve connects the stomach and the heart. It certainly can send a signal to lower your blood pressure if stomach or esophagus are irritated. I get tachycardia if I eat one of my reflux foods (which include wine and beer and a whole page more). There are medical research articles on cardiogastric reflex (reflex with an E).

Passing out from a drop in blood pressure, often after standing up from lying down, is common in young women. I don't know the causes. I don't know your age or if you have low-normal blood pressure, which is a cause. I used to get faint and dizzy when I was young, had low-normal blood pressure then. My son called an ambulance for his former girlfriend for this once when she fainted after standing up fast.

You can have a tilt-table test for this condition if it happens often. If you have low blood pressure all the time they usually tell you to just eat more salt to get your blood pressure up.

If ya wanna know more, google medical advice forum

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Both were highly intelligent &amp; experimental

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In cowgirl, she had a great instinctive rhythm of sliding her hands down &amp; up my chest &amp; round my neck for a quick gentle squeeze, followed by soft sweet thumb strokes up &amp; down, side to side, then back down &amp; up my chest etc etc

I've never ever squeezed any gf's neck, as I aint been asked to

When my first wifeomce said, "Treat me rogh, big boy!", I told her that could be dangerous &amp; damage sensitive parts of her body, as well as hurt badly


"LOve is gentle: love is kind"
But, as trained actors, the MN wife loved me to pretend to grab her throat threateningly, to enjoy the common female fantasy of combining the virgin &amp; the *****

They can make love with absolute abandon, but tell daddy dear, "It's his fault: he made me do it"

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Too many folk are way off balance

No wonder they fall over so often &amp; so hard, eh?

For one thing if you use bag sometimes, make sure the bag is fairly tight, as in not lot of "spare" air. If there is lots of "spare" this air will become very Co2 toxic from exhaling and when re-inhaled in starts to cause Co2 blood poising. Even if you take the bag off theCo2 poison blood will not recover fast enough and death can occur. Better tight fit, a bit loose is ok, but not loose and baggy.

For one thing if you use bag sometimes, make sure the bag is fairly tight, as in not lot of "spare" air. If there is lots of "spare" this air will become very Co2 toxic from exhaling and when re-inhaled in starts to cause Co2 blood poising. Even if you take the bag off theCo2 poison blood will not recover fast enough and death can occur. Better tight fit, a bit loose is ok, but not loose and baggy.

sorry but the only thing i like to choke is my chicken :) lol & the gf like that as well :P)

oh the joys of playing games,such hot horny fun

I'll share a good strangulatiion story with some good ideas if you'd like -- send me a regullar email to miklew61@yahoo..com.

mmmm, nice images!

mmmm, nice images!

wish I could find someone to do this with me.. turned me on just reaidn it...

It is awesome to see the look on her face as she *******. Her eyes go wide, she starts to shake a shudders. It is such a turn-on. Everybody goes away happy. Yes you have to know where to stop with the choking. We don't try to make each other passout or anything drastic like that. You also need a safe word.

People die from this, be very careful. And not just people trying it out with no clue. Very experienced people have managed to choke themselves or their partners to death

My boyfriend does this a lot to me. I love the feeling of being tied, totally helpless and then having him choke me. He starts out gently squeezing, then it gets hard until I can't breathe. The ******* are fantastic for both of us, he gets very excited watching me struggle and his are more intense.

i like aurotic aspyxia being suffocated with a plastic bag

i like aurotic aspyxia being suffocated with a plastic bag

just don't lose control, not to hard, you can really make her ****** tons from it, try to experiment different ways to choke, never to hard, but always a pleasure.

That sounds fun to me lol. It is dangerous, but you can't help what your body and heart wants.

Agree with Jewess. I also know of one serious negative result from this.

i have never tried this but a friend did and needed to go to the hospital so be careful