My husband Terry and I recently have been practicing Tantra exercises. Learning the mind body points and each of the senses (the chakras) and breathing technique is a real challenge. I'm certain will take much time to learn all the in's and out's (no pun intended). However ****** control for the male is very real and is mind blowing when release is finally tabulated. I have learned multiple ****** through massage and vaginal/clitoral orange/red zone manipulation, it's my favorite exercise in Tantric practice. Terry has learned to control his *********** on several occasions, and helped me to learn how to help him in control. When he can refrain from orgasmic release (sometimes for a few days), when he does release, his ****** can go on for more than a minute or two. Our mentor in the practice forewarned us this would be expected but was still scary at first for me but now it is just amazing to experience and very gratifying. I think this type of sexual experience is a form of edge play and is a difficult concept to master but worth the effort.