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My 14 Year Old Daughter

OK, so I told you a little about me, now I would like to introduce you to my 14 year old Daughter, Pam. After I found out that my daughter was a smoker, I invited her to have a cigarette with me. She had told me she had only smoked a couple of months, but when I saw her take a long drag on her VS-120 Menthol and then pull the smoke into her lungs with not as much as a flinch, I knew she had been smoking much longer than 2 months. Upon further questioning, I learned she had been smoking "regularly" for 2 months, but had smoking for over a year. It was like looking into a mirror as her smoking style was just like mine. As we talked, she paused just long enough to take another inhale and then immediately began talking again, exhaling smoke as she spoke. She said she noticed how relaxed I was when I smoked and how I papered to enjoy smoking and wanted to see what it was like. She did not at all enjoy her first cigarette, but after about a week, she tried again. This time she just allowed the smoke to remain in her mouth, instead of trying to inhale, as he had seen me do. She said she felt a little more relaxed after the second time, so the next day had another cigarette, again not inhaling. after several days of smoking without inhaling, she put just a small amount of smoke into her mouth and tried to inhale that. She said it was a little uncomfortable, but not as bad as her first experience. Each day she put a little more smoke in her mouth and inhaled it. After about 2 weeks, she found herself wanting to experiment twice a day. Then after a month it was 3 time a day and by now she was inhaling a full mouth full of smoke. She said after about 3 months she discovered by hold the smoke in her lungs for longer she got a more relaxed "happy" feeling. I had to laugh when she explained it that way !

Now, her daily "routine" on school days involves smoking a cigarette when she first wakes up. a 2nd one with breakfast, a 3rd before heading to the bus, then a 4th one between 2nd and 3rd period, as she (and she said about 20 other kids) slip into a wooded area just off the school property. during lunch she again goes off school property and smokes her 5th, 6th and 7th, in a chain fashion, lighting one off the last coals of the prior one. Right after school, as soon as she gets into the house, she lights up hr 8th. Between the time she arrives home and dinner she smokes 3 or 4 more. After dinner she smoke another and then between dinner and bed time she usually smokes 4 more, which typically brings her daily total to around 16 or 17. When stressed, like just before a big test, and on the weekends she will knock off a full pack and sometime even smoke 1 or 2 from a second pack, in one day.

I asked if she ever considered stopping and she told me she never really thought about it and then asked me if I ever considered quitting. I told her I smoke because I enjoy to and as long as I enjoyed it, I did not plan to quit. She said she enjoyed it also.
AshleyMcCleary37 AshleyMcCleary37 36-40, F 49 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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Sometimes I dip the end in wax it doesn't light very well but it tastes so good

I'm 11 too I don't know where to get my cigs I have one every day buy I like them and I can't stop now its like 3 and I only have 4more and my mum will know something's up if I take hers what do I do

I'm 11 years old and I have had 1 without my mum knowing because I was so stressed for some reason but I have decided to have my second one but I have promised myself not to get to addicted cause I don't want to die. XX Thx for reading and Plz don't judge

You take time with your smoking. Just do the second one if you really feel you want it

Yes you can have a second one. But don't give up on them. Smoking is WONDERFUL and 11 is a great age to start!!

wow, you make me sick, telling an 11 year old its ok to smoke. its nothing but STUPID

I feel the same way, so I really couldn't say anything to my daughter!

Good for you to teach her how to smoke correctly... I started at 13 and never gonna quit.... I always live smoking and all my girl friends n now my wife are all chain smoker's. ..

I love quit but my mom smoke having me she was pregnant with me. 1 day my mom left her cigarettes in car I was 14 years old. I dare try 1 by my cousin. I started smoking then. My mom never knew I was smoking until I was 16 she found me by tree outside having 1. My mom said she was not mad her daughter was a smoker & she ask me for 1 we sat under tree together having a cigarette.... i have limit 10 a day my mom said.... Dad do not care too he been smoker seen 11 years old he said. My mom smoker seen 13 years old she said. p s little tip try quit smoking I found out. think your cigarette is a firecracker you light it is time bomb it might blow up kill you. it might make you put out quit smoking.

Wow what a story. It's nice to meet such an open minded mother . I just wish my mother was like you. I would have enjoyed the pleasure without having to hide it.

WTF YOUR daughter 14 years old smoking? are you buying her cigarettes? you bad parent... do know in cigarettes?
Acetone – found in nail polish remover
Acetic Acid – an ingredient in hair dye
Ammonia – a common household cleaner
Arsenic – used in rat poison
Benzene – found in rubber cement
Butane – used in lighter fluid
Cadmium – active component in battery acid
Carbon Monoxide – released in car exhaust fumes
Formaldehyde – embalming fluid
Hexamine – found in barbecue lighter fluid
Lead – used in batteries
Napthalene – an ingredient in moth balls
Methanol – a main component in rocket fuel
Nicotine – used as insecticide
Tar – material for paving roads
Menthol - use in washing clothes at lundarymat
100s - to long be smoking & 120s - are way to long be smoking.
here 1 tip quit smoking quickly. put broken cigarette light up in plastic bag. wat that plastic bag fill up with smoke. that your body fill up with smoke. do that look kool? when you see that you brake rest of your cigarettes quit smoking cold turkey.....

Good for YOU BASKETBALL *HIGHFIVE*, oh what the hell make that *DOUBLE HIGHFIVE* ;) Aren't there LAWS about AGE LIMIT about smoking?!? Ummmm irresponsible parenting - nicely done. * sarcasm* Oo

i hate cigarettes they killed my grandmother and my grandfather i got my husband to quit or it would have killed him . hes been done with cigarettes for 3 years now because of me he has dodged needing a pacemaker for 3 years because i got him to quit smoking and to change his diet . the doctors are still stumped that he is still improving

That sad. I feel sorry for you. I love quit but my mom smoke having me she was pregnant with me. 1 day my mom left her cigarettes in car I was 14 years old. I dare try 1 by my cousin. I started smoking then. My mom never knew I was smoking until I was 16 she found me by tree outside having 1. My mom said she was not mad her daughter was a smoker & she ask me for 1 we sat under tree together having a cigarette.... i have limit 10 a day my mom said.... Dad do not care too he been smoker seen 11 years old he said. My mom smoker seen 13 years old she said.

that good tip too basketball? high five too. can add u we can chat sometime?

what you said basketball made me wanna quit smoking.

Look at this troll listing the worst sounding relation to the ingredients in cigarettes. Odd use of menthol, its also used for treatments and used to relax muscles with no negative side affects...

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yes been smoking seen 14 years old now 26 years old until july. i love enjoy smoking. my favorite cigs Marlboro 100s Lights cigs sometimes newport cigs. i have try few 120s virginia slims moms but they are really good. mom don't know i'm smoke she buy 10 different brands they all over house i take few put in my pursue i use smoke in school bathrooms & outside school before bell. i use stolen mom cigs take them school. i had 9 friends was smokers we always had 1 before school & on lunchtime break & i came home school i went my friend treehouse smoke last 2 there. my mom never know i was smoking until 1 day i was 18 saw cigs my pursue. i started smoking at 13 or early 14 years old. my first 1 was sleam 100 cig of my grandpa. he left 1 burning ashtray. he went downstairs do work in basement left me livingroom play. he took 2 drags off it. i wanted know tease like. after first drag i really enjoy it. my mom always leave her cigs around house she had 7 or 10 different brands she never know i take brand that never been open before. mom happy her daughter was a smoker......

do know in cigarettes? Acetone – found in nail polish remover
Acetic Acid – an ingredient in hair dye
Ammonia – a common household cleaner
Arsenic – used in rat poison
Benzene – found in rubber cement
Butane – used in lighter fluid
Cadmium – active component in battery acid
Carbon Monoxide – released in car exhaust fumes
Formaldehyde – embalming fluid
Hexamine – found in barbecue lighter fluid
Lead – used in batteries
Napthalene – an ingredient in moth balls
Methanol – a main component in rocket fuel
Nicotine – used as insecticide
Tar – material for paving roads

After people really that blinded by their fetish to believe some dude's smoking fetish story passed off as a mom with a kid that smokes? A 14 year old that smokes 120's? Yeahhhhhh. okay.

Amanda365 my sister. she been smoking 15 years now. i'm 35 years old. i started smoking 9 years old. i enjoy every day/night. i work for web site called draggingladys.com that all we do drink red wine & smoke best cigarettes. i like marlboros reds & newports & parliaments at home but at work we smoke virginia super slims or vogue 120s or sometimes capri 120s or misty 120s cigarettes.

do know in cigarettes? Acetone – found in nail polish remover
Acetic Acid – an ingredient in hair dye
Ammonia – a common household cleaner
Arsenic – used in rat poison
Benzene – found in rubber cement
Butane – used in lighter fluid
Cadmium – active component in battery acid
Carbon Monoxide – released in car exhaust fumes
Formaldehyde – embalming fluid
Hexamine – found in barbecue lighter fluid
Lead – used in batteries
Napthalene – an ingredient in moth balls
Methanol – a main component in rocket fuel
Nicotine – used as insecticide
Tar – material for paving roads

i been smoking seen 9 years old now 24 years old. i enjoy everyday & night. i like marlboro menthol 100s & newports 100s & parliament 100s on break at work at night after work or nightclubs capri 120s or virginia superslims 120s or misty 120s or vogue 120s cigarettes. i'm glad your daughter smoker i join her anytime for a cigarettes together.

do know in cigarettes?
Acetone – found in nail polish remover
Acetic Acid – an ingredient in hair dye
Ammonia – a common household cleaner
Arsenic – used in rat poison
Benzene – found in rubber cement
Butane – used in lighter fluid
Cadmium – active component in battery acid
Carbon Monoxide – released in car exhaust fumes
Formaldehyde – embalming fluid
Hexamine – found in barbecue lighter fluid
Lead – used in batteries
Napthalene – an ingredient in moth balls
Methanol – a main component in rocket fuel
Nicotine – used as insecticide
Tar – material for paving roads

So great you let her smoke... and cool she enjoys it!

not to burst your bubble or anything. just wanted to say i'm really sad right now because having a lot of cigarettes are really bad and maybe she should have a little less because it is actually really damaging. i know it is enjoyable just it is really unhealthy. :( Your daughter might suffer from lung cancer if she has to much. here are the ingredients in a cigarettes
Acetone – found in nail polish remover
Acetic Acid – an ingredient in hair dye
Ammonia – a common household cleaner
Arsenic – used in rat poison
Benzene – found in rubber cement
Butane – used in lighter fluid
Cadmium – active component in battery acid
Carbon Monoxide – released in car exhaust fumes
Formaldehyde – embalming fluid
Hexamine – found in barbecue lighter fluid
Lead – used in batteries
Napthalene – an ingredient in moth balls
Methanol – a main component in rocket fuel
Nicotine – used as insecticide
Tar – material for paving roads
Toluene - used to manufacture paint

your a terrible person

Wonderful story Ashley and sounds like Pam is getting to really enjoy it now as she gets more and more addicted. Keep supporting her as I know you will......great Mum as you are. Love Chris

Good on you for letting your daughter start smoking, great activity to do together, I started smoking at 12 and would never give it up! I hate the anti smoking bullshit and purposely smoke in my son's school and in the supermarket, simply because I will not be told where I can and cant smoke!

hi im 13 yo and last year i smoked and recently have started again. My mum and step-dad both smoke to. They had foud out i was smoking last year and hated me for it. I wish that had never started. It is enjoyable but kills you inside. You should stop your daughters because they will get picked on. Smoking is not cool and decent boy do not think its sexy!

Oh this is absolutly wonderful news!!!! I'm sure all of you get looks...but believe me, it's likely because you are all so sexy when you smoke....and especially 120's !!! God I just love women who smoke 120's. Thank you for helping your daughters! You're a wonderful mom!

Oh this is absolutly wonderful news!!!! I'm sure all of you get looks...but believe me, it's likely because you are all so sexy when you smoke....and especially 120's !!! God I just love women who smoke 120's. Thank you for helping your daughters! You're a wonderful mom!

Oh this is absolutly wonderful news!!!! I'm sure all of you get looks...but believe me, it's likely because you are all so sexy when you smoke....and especially 120's !!! God I just love women who smoke 120's. Thank you for helping your daughters! You're a wonderful mom!

Oh this is absolutly wonderful news!!!! I'm sure all of you get looks...but believe me, it's likely because you are all so sexy when you smoke....and especially 120's !!! God I just love women who smoke 120's. Thank you for helping your daughters! You're a wonderful mom!

I am proud of my youngest daughter Skylar. She just started smoking last month. She just turned 12. Her oldest sister Jennifer is 16 and started when she was thirteen. My middle daughter Rebecca is 14 and also started smoking at 13.
Skylar is adapting well to smoking and is now smoking about a pack a day of VS 120's. My self and Jennifer both smoke Eve 120's. We both smoke about two packs a day. Rebecca us actually the heaviest smoker. After smoking for a couple months she was already smoking around two packs of Misty 120's a day. She has now smoked for about a year and a half and now smokes over three packs a day.
My daughters are all honor students and very active in various clubs and sports.
People sometimes give us dirty looks when we are out walking and smoking. The girls all look very young for their ages. One lady actually asked me last week," Do you think your daughters should be smoking. The oldest can't be more than 13." I just laughed and said, "well, I started them young." She looked shocked and walked away.

I've know some mothers who've started their daughters really early like that, and I totally approve. If your own mom had you start early, and it's your tradition, then starting your daughters early is probably best for them and for you. I very much believe in following family traditions.
We're about the opposite in my family. We don't like to start start smoking till we're moms ourselves, and usually in our thirties. I was just short of 32 when I had my own first cigarette last spring. I'd started putting on those ominous extra pounds, and looking in the mirror I just decided it was time for me to be smoking. I had other reasons too that were more personal, but they all came together. I'm glad I started when I did, but I'm also sort of glad I waited.

Did you encourage Skylar to smoke, or did she came to you telling you that she start smoking? You all enjoy long, slim cigs with that feminine touch. How does your husband feel with 4 smoking ladies in your house?

He's probably thrilled!

You're a cool mom... I wish mine would have been likewise. She gave me loads of **** when I started at 12... but I didn't care :-) Also loved the dirty looks I got for smoking in public when I was younger..!

Great for you Judy Renee. You made a wise choice encouraging your daughters to enjoy the pleasures of extreme smoking at such a young age!

You're an awesome mother in sharing your smoking pleasure with your young teenage daughters and encouraging them to smoke as much as they desire. The ultimate role model! I'm sure you'll be tremendously proud when Skylark really gets to two ppd!!! Great way to bond with your daughters!!

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thumbs up!

Share your common enjoyment

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My 16 year old is a 3 ppd smoker like myself and my 13 yo is a 2 ppd smoker. More Menthol 120s for all of us.....well done for you...

Beautiful!!!!! And 120's even! That is incredibly sexy!

Great Story!!! So good to see a mother letting her daughter enjoy the pleasure of 120s!!!!

lovely story & comments! would like to spend some days with this family ;)

You're a wonderful mom. It's nice to drop the BS about smoking at home. She should smoke at home where it is safe. I wonder if the other male classmates find her more attractive?

Of course they do! What man with testosterone in his body wouldn't?

You are a good mom for letting your 14 year old daughter smoke and also for letting her decide how much she wants to smoke! Good for you! It would be good if she started smoking even more. All parents should let their kids smoke (and even encourage them to do so). And they shouldn't be limited in the amount either.

Can you submit a photo of your daughter smoking ???

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glad you let your daughter smoke if she enjoys it why not better that than having to sneak like me now i smoke 30 aday

I'm sorry for this
YOU PPLE ARE RIDICULOUS
Letting a 14 year old smoke are you dumb?
Smoking is bad !!!!
I'm not just gonna tell you that but I'm gonna prove it.
Ok if you smoke cool but MAKE your daughter quit don't you want her to have a happy life she's gonna develop HORRIBLE diseases that even doctors CAN'T fix do you wanna see her at age 29 with lung cancer sure they can replace her lung BUT if it rejects it she dies do you wanna see your baby girl on oxygen tubes at 30 do you wanna see her in her death bed and who's fault would that be . And did you know that cigarettes have arsenal what's arsenal? ( rat poison ) she's killing her body , she's gonna age faster than. What she should be aging. + do you want her to get cirrhosis. You better enjoy the time you have wih her bcz who knows what 4000+ chemicals can do to you umm I have a clue kill you!
And all you pple sitting around acting like this is normal ITS NOT ITS ILLEGAL for one and her boys not full developed so those chemicals are screwing up her body and who's fault is that?? THIS IS FOR ALL THE PARENTS BECOME HEALTH LITERTURE. And learn the real facts on cigarette I could send you a copy never heard of that girl she stArted smoking at 13 when she was 20 she got diagnosed with a horrible disease she didn't give a crap then when she 29 that's when she started to care when the damage was already done!! She said oh how she wishes she can take back all the smoking it ruined her life she had big plans in life but smoking RUINED it now she's in a wheelchair surviving for her life she's has a box of medication . And that guy professional baseball player he developed leukoplakia ( white patches in your mouth) doctors COULDN'T cure that so now he has 1 jaw a half of a lounge and part of his throat gone IM 14 AND I KNOW THIS YOU SHOULD KNOW THIS !

As a 35 year old mother of two who never smoked as a teen but only started smoking last spring, I'd personally prefer see a 14 year old wait a few more years before she started smoking, but she's Ashley's daughter, not mine, so it's not my call to make. It's not yours either, and I must say I'd much rather share a cigarette with Ashley's lovely sounding daughter than spend the same 5 minutes sharing a room with a rude little ranter who thinks her 14 years give her the authority to question Ashley's parenting, or anyone elses.

i'm Taylor Ann Johnson a girl from Los Angeles California 27 years old. I started smoking at 13 years old. now been smoking 14 years now. I like Capri 120s & Marlboros Reds 100s & Marlboros Menthol Lights 100s & Virginia super slims 120s & Benson & Hedges 100s Mores 120s cigarettes. everyday different brand I smoke. my first one was mom's Carlton Menthol Soft 120s as she in groceries store. they was yummy. i told mom i was smoker at 18. mom didn't care. i love Cigarettes. i try few dad's cigars too. if your 14 years old daughter smoker let her. buy her cigarettes. don't let her do i did stolen mom's cigarettes. bum 1 from friend in school.

Good story...a fetishists story...and obviously not really sadly.

That's great. Hopefully she'll stick to 120s too!

So good you also let your daughter smoke... I'm the same with my girls and they also loooove it!

My new favorite story. Plz add me

glad you are a smoker amandatonia, please add and thanks.

Whether this story is true or not, I wish I had parents like this.

You and Pam rock!! I'm sure it's a great relief in her life to be able to be open with you regarding her enjoyment. Can you blame her?

I have to say...this sounds a big bogus. I mean, what parent goes to the extreme of actually counting each cigarette someone, even their "daughter", smokes each day. A bit much.

Well Pam is quite the puffer & sounds like she enjoys her cigarettes alot. Her smoking 120s is super cool too & Ill bet she looks just great with that long elegant cigarette. I wonder if she dangles a fresh lit cigarette or pops rings, that's fun and looks so nice on a woman that smokes.

That's a really wonderful story Ashley! You must be very proud of Pam & it sounds like you're actually very pleased she's a confirmed smoker now. There's no doubt she's made the right decision & great to know she's enjoying it so much now. It must be very nice for the two of you smoking together & I suspect it will really help your relationship through the teenage years for her. Chris x

That's very tolerant of you. I'm sure she'll remember it. How often do you two smoke together?

Great story that reminds me of how my sisters and I started smoking. It was a different era then; cigarettes were widely available and cheap. One of them was caught at school with cigarettes so my Aunt decided that it was an opportunity for all of us to learn. She gathered us around the kitchen table, pulled out a pack of her VS 120s and the lessons began. We all picked up her style to the point where I've been told by perfect strangers that I "smoke like a woman". My Aunt let us smoke at home, in the car, at relatives places, and at other places that she approved but not in school. We all smoked pretty regularly doing between a half and a full pack a day. All of us still smoke.

I think it's cool to be able to smoke with your daughter!