I Am a Sucker For a Pretty Face

I've always been pretty much a sucker for a pretty face and lately that has turned around and slapped me in the face pretty badly. I seem to have a knack for the wrong kind of guys, you know the ones that are hot as hell, but really brainless, and have a thousand chicks hanging at their doorstep. Yep, it's that one! I've always been crazily attracted to them. Deep inside, I know that they are not the kind that you keep around for long for they will find a way to hurt you in the end but I can't help it. I love those georgeous faces that lie and say pretty words they don't mean, that say they will call and they won't, they play games with your mind, they are the best kissers in the world, and make every girl in a room turn her head around. Yep that's my kind of guy. I push the nice guys away because I feel like they are too easy to mold into my work of art, they do as I want, they put up with whatever, they are too nice??

The thing is I want to want a nice guy, not just someone with a hot bod and a handsome face but someone with more substance. I need to get over my obsession with hotties and just move on.  I am making an effort. I even like the nice guys but there just isn't an attraction. God, I wish I didn't have to keep doing this to myself!

1ladybug 1ladybug
22-25, F
2 Responses Jan 22, 2008

I am going through exactly the same thing:((( I have an obsession with guys with perfect appearance yet who play games and say things they never really mean. Deep down I know this is the wrong thing to do, and I know I will always wind up hurting myself( which I already did, for many times), but I can't help it.
I try hard to like nice guys, the way my friends, or even parents keep on telling to do, but just like what you mentioned, there just isn't an attraction there :/// Even though I know that they are the suitable ones for me. I really wish that I could stop doing this to myself.....

If I had a dime for the number of times I've heard the words "you're really nice, but I just don't feel any chemistry." that and a hundred other variations. Are women really that heartless and superficial? Do women really not care about character and soul in a man?