Been There Words Of EncouragementI have been in several abusive relationships. So I do have an understanding. Especially when you are trying to get out of it. Or even why you get back into another one. Woman. We cannot just settle for anyone or anything. We are precious. We need to have higher standards of our choices and not settle. Let's start working on our selves. Whether it is healing from past relationships or things we have done or been through. Self examination. Not to be so quick to jump into another realtionship. Lets get ourselves together. Please believe me I know some of us don't like to be alone. But that is what it is going to take to get ourselves together so we can make better decisions so our lives don't get infected anymore. Instead of jumping right in let us take our time on getting to know that person and visiting with some of his family to get there dna. Meaning how the rest of there family acts and attitudes and etc. If you are in a violent relationship get out. Stop second guessing yourself. I know. It is like having a devil one side of your shoulder and dthen the angel on the other. Fighting. It will get worse. But sometimes it can get better. But you have to pray about it. Love yourself. Love is not supposed to hurt or bruises. Think.
iamchanging 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 Nov 7, 2010