Need Help, Am I Being Verbally Abused??
um i joined this becuse i need help.
im in a relationship now which has been going on for 2.5 years and it has been great. at the start the "boy" was nice, caring, giving, loving, it was just amazing.
it started when i broke up with an ex to be with the boy and he didnt like that the break up took so long.
i fell in love with the boy and thats why i wanted to be with him.
now he is not what he used to be. he is now belimic becuase he blames ppl telling him im too good for him and since then he has lost 30kg, and blames me for the pressure. even thou ive loved him no matter what.
he earns more than double of what i do and he spent money on me as i did him, but whatever i did eas never enough. i didnt take him to as many 5 start hotels as he did. i didnt buy as much presents... i have gone threw a lot of money and i simply cannot afford to.
we have had fights and problems becuase i have friends who he doesnt like. one who lives 8 hours away from me becuase a few years back i deeply liked him. and since then. i am not allowed to be friends with him.
now he has started to call me names, like *****, loser, you've let yourself go, putting me down, and also turning friends away, saying they think you are stupid and dumb, talking badly of my family who only try to help me. telling me i should go throw up and gabs my stomach. ( note im not overweight, im a normal size)
he punches himself in the head when angry and has grabbed me and pushed me around when we are in an argument.
he does all this phyco stuff and then later says how he does all this good for me and how i dont try enough, its like this cylcle, and though i love him, it hurts and i think to end it would be best.
i feel like im missing out on a lot of stuff. seeing friends.. never see them much anymore, i just feel so tired, weak, scared, depressed all the time now. is this becuase of my relastionship? what should i do?