Violent Relationships....killA friend that I met here, just a few days ago, has committed suicide. Her user name was Paulaforever. We met through a question that she asked. We communicated, and because of the post she wrote, I became aware of her violent history.
She had been beaten, just days before. The boyfriend was responsible for the battery, and was temporarily in jail. Paula, did go into hiding. She gave up ownership to half of the home, just so that she could go into hiding and not be located. She quit her job for the same reason. But you see, you can't run from the fear inside you, the panic inside you, and so that fear and panic took over..
Violent relationships, are evil, and if you know someone dealing with that type of life, please reach out, try to help and encourage them to leave. I was only an acquaintance of Paulaforever, through EP, and a new acquaintance, and so I had little impact. But I am glad I at least tried.
People matter, what happens to them matters. How you treat each other matters.
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Daveylovesyou, is the ex of Paula, and the father of her 2 children..he tried to help Paula..he offered her safety, but she was too afraid to accept.If you can, please offer comfort and condolences to Daveylovesyou, because he too is a victim in this. To find him, look at my profile, Davey is the first friend...
neuilly 61-65, F 42 Responses 35 Jan 19, 2013