I Could Never...

I could never feel anything for my dad other than hatred. I hate abusers. I hate what one did to me, and I hate what they do to others. I hate them. I cannot feel for them.

drcynic drcynic
26-30, M
12 Responses Feb 17, 2009

Totally agree with drcynic . My father was a piece of **** to feel the same way about him.

Totally agree with drcynic . My father was a piece of **** to feel the same way about him.

i dont like abuse of any kind!

Drcynic, do whatever gets you through, total forgiveness is a bit over the top but so is hatred, I find emotional detachment and being happy is the best way to go, as it causes the least stress to you, and you should be thinking of you, you deserve more to make up for being abused, try to make the rest of your life, yours, own it enjoy it and live it to the full, it is rough but some like to dominate and get worse when thwarted best to avoid him and start to heal.

iam with you on that!!!! kedos for speaking up and speaking out!!!! i cant feel for abusers eather

i hear you, drcynic. my dad is lucky for the time i have given him in my life. after witnessing him throw a pot of boiling water on my mom when i was a kid, he's lucky i ever had anything to do with him at all.

Don't be sorry.<br />
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They say to forgive is godly... But I don't believe in god, anyway.

drcynic - love you. I am sorry ....

**** him. He may go to hell for all I care.

It just wasn't the reason he did it.

My parents had terrible childhoods and they never took it out on me or my sisters. There's simply no excuse for abuse of any kind.

Maybe so... I still cannot feel for them. He wasn't abused as a child. He had a relatively good life.