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I have nobody to talk to about anything I'm going through. My parents are mean to me. My dad is an alcoholic and my mom is scared to stand up for herself and say what she thinks. I don't have many friends, I mostly just hang around some people at school that I don't relate to at all because I don't want to be totally alone. The friends I do have, our relationships are easygoing and we never talk about our feelings. I feel like I'm so alone. The only person I could ever talk to about anything and that I knew cared was my ex. I've recently started to keep a journal to myself in an attempt to make me feel better. I just wish I could have someone to talk to that cared and wanted to help me. I hate being so alone and having to keep my thoughts inside. I'm going to burst.
universaloneliness universaloneliness 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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I am so happy to keep in contact and will get back to you asap. I don't want you feeling this way. Remember don't be harsh on your self. I have been where you are once and know the feeling my advice is I would start by slowly distancing myself from people and places that make me feel lonely and depressed and work on doing the things you love to fill the time you use to spend alone. This will benifit you in a couple of ways. One it takes up time positively and second by doing the things you love (like a hobby or a sport) you end up boosting your mood and self and possibly meeting that special person and making friends at the same time. Please keep in touch. I really love being there for you. Consider me your older sister...stay blessed and be gentle with your self...it's NEVER okay to tolerate, accept or rationalize abuse in any shape or form be it mental physical or sexual, please if you are suffering any of the above get out now before it gets worse and make a support network of people you can talk to in your area so they are in the picture and can keep checking up with you to make sure you are ok, ok love have a wonderful day and stay in touch. Also remember Having friends is not a great measure of success. Friendships are measure by the quality not quantity. I have a tight few who've stuck by me through thick and thin. Two of whom I met through school and the other three through work and volunteering! The world is a wonderful place and you are worthy of someone wonderful so go out and cease the great people and experiences ahead of you, I have faith in you :)

OMG I AM GOING THRU THE SAME EXACT THING!! JUST KNOW.. YOU MAY FEEL ALONE... BUT I FEEL THIS DAY AFTER DAY... I HAVE NEVER FELT SO ALONE.. N I GOTTA SAY I AM GLAD TO HAVE READ YOUR STORY... I HAVE NOBODY EITHER... N WEN I GO TO LUNCH, I FIND MYSELF LEFT OUT CUZ I DOT KNOW WHO TO SIT WITH CUZ I CANT RELATE TO NOBODY... I HAVE FEW FRIENDS BUT I FEEL INFERIOR TO THEM FOR SOME REASON N I DONT LIKE BEING AROUND THEM.. I HAD JOURNALS TOO BUT ITS NOT THE SAME YKNOW? PLUS I LIKE TALKING..

i have a caring and worrying parents, a pretty good friends but i don't talk to them about my thoughts.

every one asks me for advice or talk to me about their problems think I am a happy person that has no regrets or problems at all, but i really do I just don't think any one will understand my problems and know how to solve them better than me.

you are longing to find someone who really cares to talk to. that's a good sign, you just need to hang out with the right people

in the end as Orson Welles said:

“We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.”