That's what I tell everyone when asked how I am doing.  Whenever I did tell someone how I felt, I either got the "ohhhh" look, or the "deer in the headlights" look. So, now I just say fine.....

Karen21632 Karen21632
41-45, F
4 Responses Mar 9, 2009

Karen, I look at things a little different. I don't think I am a rude. But if do not want to know how someone is doing then I will not ask. The way I see it. If they don't want to know then don't ask. If they do then be prepared for the truth.

I Agree with singer1960 ,esp in the first part ..<br />
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i've been where u are , and learned with time , along with some slaps , exactly what singer1960 said !

They do not really want to know...They are just being nice......So I just say fine now also....<br />
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and at times they will not take that for an answer....Even if it is the truth...Sometimes I am just thinking of things...And when I say that nothing is wrong...They just keep it up...<br />
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Got into trouble once when I told the person that it is one of three things....That nothing is wrong....<br />
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It was someting that I did not want to talk about with anyone....<br />
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Or that it was sometjhing that I thought was none of her Damb busness...

[HUGS] been there before ... I know exactly how that feels. So sorry.