I'm Losing My Son

Divorce hurts your kids even if they are adults. I left my husband over 2 years ago. I am now in a very nasty divorce. He is very bitter, something that’s his problem but his bitterness has affected our children. Our daughter is 30 years old and hasn’t spoken to her father since the day I left. That’s their issue and have stayed out of their problem.
Our son is 22 years old and is struggling with college, girlfriend problems and trying to stay out of “the parents” problems. All was ok until I moved out of the area. He now resents me for moving and won’t talk to me. He doesn’t understand that I need to think about myself, he’s a big boy now.
Am I right or wrong?
someday59 someday59
56-60, F
Jan 17, 2013