Future Girlfriend?

Last night I had 2 dreams about this same girl I know well, but not extremely well. Both dreams were that her and I were dating. We were holding hands, hugging, the typical boyfriend/girlfriend thing. When I woke up from the first dream, I fell back asleep and after I woke from the second dream I had feelings for her. I don't want to rush things but I don't want to go into the friend zone, which is what I normally do, not on purpose though. I want to ask her out but when?!? Please help :)
uptotheminute uptotheminute 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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Every girl is different... The biggest thing is to be attentive to details which means being a good listener... a girl will tell unconsciously tell u what she looking for in a guy and in life... it ur job to catch those details and remember them... by displaying that u not only heard her but u took it to heart what she had to say its a for sure way to win any girls heart... For example if she mentions her favorite thing to snack on is jelly beans and root beer... and yall are having a movie night and u show up with jelly beans and root beer then u have just earned some major brownie points :)

Will do thanks :)

you obviously feel some connection to her... so just take it slow... see where u land up. But it could mean something legit... my dad dreamed about my mom like that and they have been married for 30 yrs :)

Thanks :) Do you have any tips though? Like on how to get her as my girlfriend?

What are these dreams telling me?!?! I'm so confused!