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Dreaming About My Ex

I keep having dreams about my ex, these past few weeks. And I don't know why. We've stayed friends, but I've barley talked to him, in the last 6/7 months.  He's been impossible to get ahold of(that's a whole another story)  Anyways, I 'm kinda wondering why, he keeps popping up in my dreams! I've finally moved on,which ended up being extremely difficult(again, another whole story) I don't know a whole lot about dream interpretation, other then the theory that dreams is your sub-conscious talking. Anyone have insights to why I keep dreaming about him??

update: last night I had the strangest dream with him, I was roommates with two of my friends(one of them I am actually going to be living with soon) In the dream my ex didn't live to far from me(in real life he does) He had just broken up with his gf(in the dream), the door to his apt. wasn't to far from mine, and random women kept walking into it.  Then something about myspace pages came into the dream, he created one and I wanted to add him as a friend so he could hear the song on mine(which really is the song i have on mine, and it does remind me of him) Then I woke up around 5am-ish(really woke up, not in the dream) with a song stuck in my head, that was playing in the background in parts of the dream(not the myspace song though) and the song is "why haven't i heard from you." I've had some strange dreams about him, and other things, but this one is def. one of the stranger ones. Any interpretations?

littleroo littleroo 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 27, 2007

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My ex- n I live in the same house. We've been this way for about 3 week.

The first week, no one spoke and separate room. In which there's a bedroom between his and mine. I was sleep and someone was trying to pull me out of bed. And telling me he's coming back pulling me on my knees. In my dreams I said, let me go my knee is hurting. I don't care let me go. I woke up because shortly after the voice again. Saying to me see his is right next to you. I woke up cause I felt someone lying against me. Scare as I was I went back to sleep. All the sudden I get 2 taps on the shoulder. Woke up thinking my ex was in the room but no one was there. Two days later the same thing but this time no one tap my shoulder.

ive been dreamin of my ex lately n i dnt why? we broke up 6 yrs ago coz he woz supposed 2 ave cheated on me never got da truth!!!! so why do i keep dreamin of him?

I know I miss him. Together, we had a lot of fun. It was a bad break-up and I know my part in it wasn't good. I still love him, but I know I have to move on. He's in my thoughts every day and now, my dreams. Last night, I had a dream about some people asking me if I wanted to see him. Of course, I said yes. I don't know what these people wanted, but one of them tried to pass as my ex. He didn't really look like him, but he was similar to my ex. Then, he wanted me to shake his hand and stuck out these puny looking fingers. My ex's fingers were fat and I said, "What happened to your fingers?" He said, "That's what happens when you do a lot of drugs." I accepted his answer, but was skeptical. Then, I saw him put on a swimsuit because he and the others were going swimming. My ex doesn't like the water and I kept trying to find someone to warn him and I was ready to protect myself and him. I woke up and couldn't finish the dream. I went back to sleep and had another dream about him, but I can't remember that one. We broke up a little over six months ago. I think about him every day. I've met other guys and nobody is like him, so I lose interest very quickly. We were together four years, but it was rocky most of the time and I was mean to him. I'm so sorry and wish only the best for him. I wish he would come back. I wish he would come back. I wish he would come back. And I don't wish it, too. Confusing!

Atitlan- thanks for the comment, this is an old story wrote it three years ago but good anaylisis



sasha- not good a dream anaylis myself, maybe it just means you miss him?

I dream that my ex-boyfriend was lying next to me telling me that he walked in the back door and he wanted to talk and i said ok but i was so tired. Then the last thing i remember is that he got close to my face and he said something funny and i bite his nose and we started laughing and i woke up. I've never dreamed this way before it looked so real. What does it mean?

Well, me and my ex broke up 7 years ago, and I just had a dream about him.

I've been having dreams like this ever since we broke up, but some time ago I understood what they meant and they stopped for a while. But today I had a dream again.

So I gave up trying to understand on my own, and googled the topic and your post is the first one that appeared.

Strange enough, your avatar picture is from Pooh, which BTW was the pet-name we have for each other.

In the beginning my dreams were about him choosing other people over me. So did his family and friends.

Of course I only kept in mind the first part, until I figured out that I was leaving the most important part of the dream out.

I think it meant that I was afraid of him disappearing from my life. (Like you, we stayed friends).

So that's when they stopped. But today the dream was different.

I was in my place, with roommates. One of them was him. The other one was another guy.

They were sleeping and so I went and kissed my ex in the forehead. He woke up and smiled at me very peacefully and went back to sleep.

The other guy, which I can't remember who he was, says to me: "You realize that you actually love me don't you?".

And I turn around and look at him and say: "But I didn't kiss you, I kissed him."

So I woke up, confused as hell and found your post.

I don't know what mine means yet, but I think yours has something to do with the fear of him disappearing from your life because of circumstances you can't control.

I know this was mostly narrative on my end, but I thought maybe it could help you. Maybe you are leaving some detail of the dream out because you think it's not important. When sometimes the meaning of it all has a lot to do with those details.

Anyhow, I don't know what your beliefs are, spiritually, but on my end I believe in reincarnation. And I think him and I have things to work out in that department.

Hope you figure this out soon! :-)

yea, you always wake up when you get to the good part. Last night again I had a dream with him (grrr!) I was in bed reading a letter he wrote me, and woke p in the middle of reading it, and for a sec I started to looked for the letter, and I was like wait was just dreaming. Sometimes they feel so real it's annoying...

I so understand how you feel. In my dream I had a boyfriend and I was living with my friend in the same house. Well him and my friend are bestfriend's (that's how i met him) and in the dream he was at her house in her room and he was unhappy with his life. He wanted to talk to me and then boom i woke up.

yes, it does drive you crazy. When I wasn't talking to him and even succeed in not thinking about him, I would get stupid dreams! I was like damn it. WTH? l

I have this same problem except that he is married and I haven't seen him in 4 years and I am going to be getting married. I don't think about him at all and then i have a dream and i am like WTF? It drives me nuts!

we broke up almost two years ago, and things went on for about a year. Since the break up our friendship was on and off, then off for a long time. Now we are getting close again.

Thanks for the advice. :)

IT WILL TAKE TIME ,IF YOU HAD BEEN WITH YOUR EX FOR A LONG TIME THEN DO NOT EXPECT YOUR EMOTIONS TO DISAPPEAR STRAIGHT AWAY YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS AND YOU HAVE TO TRY AND OVERCOME THEM BY DOING THINGS MORE IN THE DAY EXCERCISE IS GOOD TO HELP YOU SLEEP SOUNDLY,DO MORE THINGS WITH OTHERS .WHEN THINK OF THAT EX THINK OF THE TIME WHY YOU SPLIT UP .NOT THE GOOD TIMES BECAUSE THAT WILL MAKE IT WORSE X HOPE THATS OK THATS WHAT I DID X

good analysis, and now that we are talking again the dreams are getting more frequent again. Will the madness ever end?

I THINK YOU STILL HOLD A BIT OF A TORCH FOR HIM ,IN YOUR SUBCONSESNESS AND YOU NEED TO KEEP SAYING TO YOURSELF I HAVE MOVED ON WHEN YOU GO TO BED TRY THAT X

thanks for the bit of info. :)

uh oh, lol... Thanks!