When Will Life Be Normal ...I'm not sure I know what normal is, but it hasn't felt like that for a long time. Daughter #1 had a child with a man who she did not marry. They were engaged and later broke off the engagement. The man's family is wealthy, he uses money as a ploy. He now plays head games using their three year old daughter. This man is 31 years old and I would have thought an adult, but my daughter and this man share custody, when he gets his daughter he drills his daughter for information. This has been going on for a year. I just want the relationship to be over and they both move on and just co-parent my granddaughter. This man has gone from accusing me of sending a virus to his work computer (which I would never do - even if I had a clue how to do it). He has tried to get me to lose my job and I don't even know what I have done to him to get me involved in this ongoing battle.
OK Daughter #2 is in a relationship with a drug dealer piece of ****. My daughter is white and this man is black (which would not be a problem - if he treated my daughter well) He uses her and has her brainwashed and she is now homeless and I have no idea where she is right now and it kills me, however we have been enabling by paying her bills while she works and pretty much spends her money on this jerk. I came to terms today that I had to let her go and pray that she comes back to us.